I read your reply Saturday, but I wanted to wait to respond. You seem to kind of maybe reject DP. I'd also like to know for discussions sake if you consider yourself a 5PC?
1st: I'm not following your analogy. Only that it presumes (wrongly IMO) to prohibit the naughty kid from being persuaded to do otherwise. Not sure how you can make that statement. It's question begging. A naughty kid who is naughty will always do the naughty thing.
2nd: Regarding DP. I probably should have been more specific. As I alluded to, my problem, at least in this discussion, isn't with evil. I would assume that since you reject DP that you would not be able to explain say as well as R.C. Sproul who accepts it. I've read his explanations and listened to him personally cover this issue. I understand that they see man's evil as volitional (and I agree), and yet see man's response as incapable. And thus Total Depravity (T) becomes total inability. So, I'm not going in the direction of "is God the author of evil." That is certainly a topic worthy of disucssion, but not the gist of my argument. It is the total inability that I have issue with when discussing the T, particularly when it comes to one hearing the Gospel.
3rd: This is where I have the biggest issue.
The issue of truth is not methodology but orthodoxy. The same truth can be conveyed in different methods. I believe God can and does employ us to many methods. Relationships, friendships, programs, brief encounters.I didn’t want this to be a long post but as far as John 3:16 and being able to preach it in good conscience, I remember a big deal of this being made in the super-thread a few months ago but I still don’t feel the force of it. If you can’t in good conscience use a certain evangelical method, change your evangelical method. Doesn't effect the truth of the matter one iota. But we have to remember that we aren’t in God’s position. As far as we know, almost EVERYONE could be saved by the grace of God. The whole issue here is a Christian one, vitally important yes but no matter which side you fall on it doesn't change the fact that we are to go out and preach the good news (and hopefully have a good time doing it).
But that doesn't address whether the gospel and it's truth itself can be changed. It can't. And that is where I see the issue. When you say 'almost' everyone 'could' be, this shows me the flaw in this line of thinking. 'Could be' and 'almost' It's a presumption, and one that doesn't line up if the 5PC or 4PC follows their logic through consistently. (Matt. 7:13) And whether a few are limited or many, the same problem still exists, only the scale changes. If the Reformed view of election is true, then preaching the Gospel (unless you change the gospel) universally would be a contradiciton. I've even read responses by strong Calvinist who nearly say as much. The Gospel is the message that conveys the truth of who Christ is, and what He has done. And its offer is not exclusionary. Whosever will...