What I want to get at here is that my grandpa has been serving the Lord since he was born. He has always been deeply religious and deeply spiritual, went to church every Sunday, he did it all. He is I think either 74 or 78, I can't remember, but he is in HORRIBLE pain. He has a leg length difference, he has diabetes, his hips hurt, he can barely walk because his entire two legs are literally like bones and skin, no flesh. He has many problems. His wife of 50+ decades passed away in 2002 due to alzheimer's, and other problems (it is sad to see her when she doesn't even remember you), and she was also deeply religious and spiritual and served the Lord. I don't really enjoy open casket funerals anymore (been to my grandmas and my cousins) and cremation
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The question is, WHY does my grandpa have to suffer this bad, when he has served the Lord for as long as he has lived? It doesn't make sense. Here he is, single, no one to talk to, no animals to talk to, in EXTREME pain, has more problems, and you just get the impression of him wanting and looking forward to death. Him laid next to his corpse bride in the windy dark cemetery is his wish. I have prayed among others for him to not suffer this bad, and nothing has happened, he continually gets worse. He was seen crying on one of the visits to us, talking about death. Maybe he has been praying to die. I don't know. All I know is that I get the impression now that either God doesn't exist (yes I have seen the many evidences for His existence, but you never know, people will do what people want to see), or He doesn't care, love, and know about my grandpa. Maybe God is limited, maybe He can't serve everyone at once, maybe God isn't a personal God. Maybe He just isn't real.
Anyways, the reason why this triggered this thought was because I was looking at books on Amazon.com about this issue, and there are just the theist vs. atheist debates. It looks like the atheist has it best when it comes to the debate on evil and suffering in the world.
This is a serious issue for me, so please don't make fun of ANY of this. My cousins mother and father, which my cousin committed suicide last year, went atheist on us and the rest of my family. They practice buddhism, but they are I guess more on the atheist side now. So many people of strong faith within my outer families have just had horrible problems with them and then they die.
Please help me, this is tough for me. There are books out there about a theist vs. atheist which both are of the highest debaters, and both equal out to the same. It makes it tough to know. Because there are these extreme debaters, I could really use the help with all the debating skills you have, to be put to use.
There is probably more to say, but I can't think of it right now.