Hi Paul,
The closest comments I see I have made in this discussion regarding whether God chooses us or we choose God is as follows:
While it is not the real topic of this thread, if you wish to know more of my belief and where I am coming from regarding predestination and free will then I align myself to William Craig's Middle Knowledge position. You can read more of this in his article Creation, Providence, and Miracle (scroll down to the heading of "Providence")K wrote:That said, I would agree that by nature we would prefer to be selfish and disregard God. Paul says as much in Romans (3:10-12): "There is no one righteous, not even one; there is no one who understands, no one who seeks God. All have turned away..." Yet, I would maintain we still can seek God. How is it we can seek God? Well, God desires all of us to come to Him, so I see He would be trying to draw all of us to Himself. God attempts to get our attention, whether it be through life experiences, other people, tragedies, or some other way. God attempt to kindle a spark within us. With His influence and depending on our response such kindling, I see a spark can result in a flame bringing a full change in us in our response to Him. On the other hand, a person can simply keep denying God and becoming more hardened and hardened against Him. So I see it is HIS choice is for ALL to come to Him, but it remains OUR choice to respond to Him in a positive manner.
To clarify one thing. I do not see we choose to be saved. I see we either respond positively or negatively to being in fellowship with God.
Finally, I do not claim to be Arminian, nor see my position as strictly Arminian. I do not see Arminians as saying predestination and our freedom to choose are compatible and not contradictory. Rather, I see the Arminian position as being directly opposite to Calvinists on the matter of God's predestining us versus our freedom to choose. That is, a strict Arminian will place our freedom to choose above God's predestining us and then attempt to justify the passages you present and make them fit their position. Calvinists on the other hand place God's predestining of the elect above that of our freedom to choose and attempt to make passages emphasising our freedom fit with their position. Let me clearly say I do not place God's predestining above our freedom to choose, or vice-versa. The position I linked to above should explain how this is coherently possible.