To be fair Audie, jpbg33 did say that he uses google to spell check and that he (?) doesn't read a lot. For my part in teasing him I have apologised. I ghink it's fine to disagree with the content of a post but it's not really fair to dismiss it becsuse of how it is written.melanie wrote:It is not respectful to readers to be so nasty in a completely unprovoked exchange, especially highlighted by the fact that the person was showing a level of vulnerability.Audie wrote:jpbg33 wrote:Not being able to spell well doesn't mean you are not smart but it sure makes you look dumb.
Not so much if a person says sensible things, cares enough to use spell check, and otherwise makes an effort. It is like
brushing your hair, dressing neatly and generally showing some self respect in public.
It is not showing respect for readers to present an unintelligible mess.
If a person doesn't show respect for himself or others, he should hardly
be surprised or self righteous about it if people dont respect his posts.
So you just felt like it, real nice.
Guess your English professor mother never taught you if you have nothing nice to say keep your damn mouth shut!
You think this guy hasn't experienced this sh*t numerous times in his life, guaranteed he has. That's just people for you though isn't it. I would like to think this forum is a place where anyone can come and share, sure be challenged on their ideas and beliefs but not in this way.
Now I could be completely wrong but our friend here shows some classic symptoms of primary dyslexia. It is genetic. They are right brain predominant thinkers which not only makes spelling, reading, writing difficult, but also subtleties in language that we easily pick up are not identified. What can be viewed as naivety, stupidity ect is especially in this type of written communication environment because the brain can't as easily pick up on it. They are not stupid or naive. They are not less intelligent, they are not lazy needing to just apply themselves, it is how their brain is wired and processes information.
Whether I'm right or wrong regarding this is irrelevant. We shouldn't use a person's vulnerabilities to belittle them.
I'm sorry I have never been the kind of person who can sit by and watch that happen, I have lost friends over it and that's a price I'm willing to pay.
Someones ability to express themselves has no bearing on the validity of their posts, or how 'intelligent' they are.
It's obvious that jpbg is passionate about what he believes and I think it's wrong to assume he isn't making an effort. So his communication might not be great but that in itself doesn't negate his ideas.