Arranged marriages and unconvential methods of dating

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Arranged marriages and unconvential methods of dating

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arranged marriages...

traditional methods...
modern methods..bachelor and bachelorette shows...some couples have married
and stayed together


we had a radio station set up two strangers to get married. I think family had imput though etc. couple have now been married for years with kids...

or is the normal method the best?

what would you prefer? many people trust their own decision more but is the divorce rate a sign we dont know who we want for life?
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there were alot of arranged marriages in the bible to look at too
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There are still parts of the world where arrange marriages make the most sense and people live happily in arrange marriages too.
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I think it's possible to learn to love someone and fall in love in arranged marriages.. they seem to have better statistics than non arranged marriages
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Perhaps there's an added feeling of "duty" in an arranged marriage. The couple will try harder to make the relationship work seeing as they have known about it and planned it since they were infants.
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Disciplical wrote:Perhaps there's an added feeling of "duty" in an arranged marriage. The couple will try harder to make the relationship work seeing as they have known about it and planned it since they were infants.
I diffinitely think theres truth to that
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