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Do you think there can be sexual sin with inside a marriage?
That doesnt involve another person?

I dont expect explict answers but I think this can be discussed in an approprite manner.
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Sure there can be. Generally anything you force upon your partner which he/she doesn't agree to but is still forced to do, is not in love, as you are not respecting their wishes, that is indeed sin, because it is selfish.
It would be a blessing if they missed the cairns and got lost on the way back. Or if
the Thing on the ice got them tonight.
I could only turn and stare in horror at the chief surgeon.
Death by starvation is a terrible thing, Goodsir, continued Stanley.
And with that we went below to the flame-flickering Darkness of the lower deck
and to a cold almost the equal of the Dante-esque Ninth Circle Arctic Night
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neo-x wrote:Sure there can be. Generally anything you force upon your partner which he/she doesn't agree to but is still forced to do, is not in love, as you are not respecting their wishes, that is indeed sin, because it is selfish.
Is witholding sex a sin? as that could be just as selfish depending on the circumstances
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Nessa wrote:
neo-x wrote:Sure there can be. Generally anything you force upon your partner which he/she doesn't agree to but is still forced to do, is not in love, as you are not respecting their wishes, that is indeed sin, because it is selfish.
Is witholding sex a sin? as that could be just as selfish depending on the circumstances
Exactly! it can be. Because then you are not loving your neighbor as your self, you are not taking care of his/her needs or reciprocating their love.
It would be a blessing if they missed the cairns and got lost on the way back. Or if
the Thing on the ice got them tonight.
I could only turn and stare in horror at the chief surgeon.
Death by starvation is a terrible thing, Goodsir, continued Stanley.
And with that we went below to the flame-flickering Darkness of the lower deck
and to a cold almost the equal of the Dante-esque Ninth Circle Arctic Night
without.


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neo-x wrote:
Nessa wrote:
neo-x wrote:Sure there can be. Generally anything you force upon your partner which he/she doesn't agree to but is still forced to do, is not in love, as you are not respecting their wishes, that is indeed sin, because it is selfish.
Is witholding sex a sin? as that could be just as selfish depending on the circumstances
Exactly! it can be. Because then you are not loving your neighbor as your self, you are not taking care of his/her needs or reciprocating their love.
loving your neighbour? :shock:

Just kidding :lol:
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Nessa wrote:
neo-x wrote:
Nessa wrote:
neo-x wrote:Sure there can be. Generally anything you force upon your partner which he/she doesn't agree to but is still forced to do, is not in love, as you are not respecting their wishes, that is indeed sin, because it is selfish.
Is witholding sex a sin? as that could be just as selfish depending on the circumstances
Exactly! it can be. Because then you are not loving your neighbor as your self, you are not taking care of his/her needs or reciprocating their love.
loving your neighbour? :shock:

Just kidding :lol:
:mrgreen:
It would be a blessing if they missed the cairns and got lost on the way back. Or if
the Thing on the ice got them tonight.
I could only turn and stare in horror at the chief surgeon.
Death by starvation is a terrible thing, Goodsir, continued Stanley.
And with that we went below to the flame-flickering Darkness of the lower deck
and to a cold almost the equal of the Dante-esque Ninth Circle Arctic Night
without.


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So... who's your neighbour neo-x? y/:]
"Whoever will call on the name of the Lord will be saved." (Romans 10:13)
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Kurieuo wrote:So... who's your neighbour neo-x? y/:]
are you thinking of moving? :shock:
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/\ That became awkward. y/:]
It would be a blessing if they missed the cairns and got lost on the way back. Or if
the Thing on the ice got them tonight.
I could only turn and stare in horror at the chief surgeon.
Death by starvation is a terrible thing, Goodsir, continued Stanley.
And with that we went below to the flame-flickering Darkness of the lower deck
and to a cold almost the equal of the Dante-esque Ninth Circle Arctic Night
without.


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neo-x wrote:/\ That became awkward. y/:]
Best warn the neighbours :lol:
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