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For me personally the bad boy thing was old.
I had taken that path and they were twats.
Money meant very little to me
Then I met my husband, don't get me wrong he can be an A hole at times but I had never met anyone like him.
He intrigued me.
He was a gentlemen.
We were teenagers and I saw him carry shopping bags to elderly ladies cars, carry strollers up stairs for mums, just a bloody good bloke who was willing to help.
That captured me.
It made me think about the extent of his chatacter, the kind of Dad he would be. It didn't take me long to fall for him big time.
Decency and old school values is a turn on.
Maybe not to everyone but to those who reciprocate those values its priceless.
A bad boy isn't what it's cracked up to be
Audie wrote:Here is a radical concept: How about a guy who is educated, responsible, knows
how to behave in public, and makes good money.
Your FL type bad-boy pos gets zero respect from me.
Radical?
Knows how to behave in public - not for me, cos often that means conforming to how society thinks we should behave. King david danced and leaped before God and looked like a fool. But he was willing to humiliate himself in public and even his own eyes, for the love of his God.
Good money - Money helps but I see the attitude of some people who dont earn well and they are some of the most generous givers around. They live to bless and are rich in heart.
Education - that can help too, but is it a must? To me things like honesty, intregrity, love, hard work, authenticity etc are much more desirable
Responsible - yes!
That is what I call radical in the eyes of this world
Hebrews 12:2-3 Looking unto Jesus the author and finisher of our faith;who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross,despising the shame,and is set down at the right hand of the throne of God.
2nd Corinthians 4:4 In whom the god of this world hath blinded the minds of them which believe not,lest the light of this glorious gospel of Christ,who is the image of God,should shine unto them.
Please forget all the advice those old married women gave you about charming the ladies. It will only embarrass you at best. And that YouTube clip suggested by Nessa is utterly useless in the real world ...unless you are an optometrist.
I have developed an easy to use system that is a sure-fire way to a lady's heart. It is easy to remember because it uses the acronym POLICE:
P ...is for Protection,
O ...is for Observe,
L ...is for Laud (a synonym of "to praise"),
I ...is for Identify,
C ...is for Candor (a synonym of "honesty") and,
E ...is for Evacuation.
I will reveal my secret on how to charm lovely damsels in a future post. For now, it is important that you consign to memory the acronym POLICE and the meaning of each letter.
Hold everything lightly. If you don't, it will hurt when God pries your fingers loose as He takes it from you. -Corrie Ten Boom
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If they had a social gospel in the days of the prodigal son, somebody would have given him a bed and a sandwich and he never would have gone home.
Please forget all the advice those old married women gave you about charming the ladies. It will only embarrass you at best. And that YouTube clip suggested by Nessa is utterly useless in the real world ...unless you are an optometrist.
I have developed an easy to use system that is a sure-fire way to a lady's heart. It is easy to remember because it uses the acronym POLICE:
P ...is for Protection,
O ...is for Observe,
L ...is for Laud (a synonym of "to praise"),
I ...is for Identify,
C ...is for Candor (a synonym of "honesty") and,
E ...is for Evacuation.
I will reveal my secret on how to charm lovely damsels in a future post. For now, it is important that you consign to memory the acronym POLICE and the meaning of each letter.
Please forget all the advice those old married women gave you about charming the ladies. It will only embarrass you at best. And that YouTube clip suggested by Nessa is utterly useless in the real world ...unless you are an optometrist.
I have developed an easy to use system that is a sure-fire way to a lady's heart. It is easy to remember because it uses the acronym POLICE:
P ...is for Protection,
O ...is for Observe,
L ...is for Laud (a synonym of "to praise"),
I ...is for Identify,
C ...is for Candor (a synonym of "honesty") and,
E ...is for Evacuation.
I will reveal my secret on how to charm lovely damsels in a future post. For now, it is important that you consign to memory the acronym POLICE and the meaning of each letter.
Please FL, tell us more
Why Nessa? Are you trying to charm the ladies too?
John 5:24 24 “Truly, truly, I say to you, he who hears My word, and believes Him who sent Me, has eternal life, and does not come into judgment, but has passed out of death into life.
“A nation of sheep will beget a government of wolves.”
-Edward R Murrow
St. Richard the Sarcastic--The Patron Saint of Irony
Remembering POLICE really works in two ways....
Cos it also comes in handy for all the creepy guys that try to charm you or try to message you cos they want to charm someone else that your friends with
