I've been reading RickD comment about OSOS and can not help but comment on the fact that he himself says that he doesn't know if OSOS is true or not.
So they may have been saved!This is from RickD "some of these younger widows have turned away to follow Satan. We don't know if these widows were true believers or not. It is possible that their husbands had been believers while they were not.".
So OSOS according to what you said there may be wrong.
Basically every time the Bible says someone is falling away you are assuming they were never saved,
An example
Couldn't abandon something you never had.This is from RickD "Paul tells us in 1 Timothy 4:1 "that in later times some will abandon the faith and follow deceiving spirits and things taught by demons."48 The fact that some people fall away from the faith does not mean that they were ever saved, but that they had professed to be Christians at some point in time. They knew about the Lord Jesus Christ and professed for a time to follow Him, but then they apostatized from the faith.".
We are not saved by works or because we prayed the sinners prayer but we are saved by Faith.
we are instructed in the Bible to keep the faith, which is referring to Christians. Sinners are not instructed to keep the Faith they don't have Faith.
I like a lot of what RickD says. You may not believe me but I do. I actually only disagree with the fact that you can't fall away. I do not believe that you backslide and fall away and backslide and fall away over and over, and I do not believe that Christians will live a perfect life. But I do believe they can. Will they or have they I do not know but the bible says God gives us the power to overcome. I believe that works are evidence of Faith not conditions of Faith.