1over137 wrote: ↑Sat Nov 24, 2018 12:00 pm
Now I see.
Things with Ed.
To be honest, am not really active moderator here.
There is Rick, Philip, Paul, B.W.
Maybe three people for ban is big number.
Would 2 be better?
Well Hanna it has been a great pleasure to have met you online and have you on board. It is time for me to go. I came on line to tie up a few loose ends and after today which means 24 hours beginning from 9:38 pm MST till tomorrow say time MST, will be my last time here. Feel free to email me at the gmail address...
bwmelvin1@gmail.com
...to keep in touch. I learned a lot from you and all you went through and how God got you through intact.
That alone is something that Ed Murphy could never do for another human being, not at all, never. Jesus is bigger than Ed and one day he will meet him. My prayer is still he meets him as saved born again so he does not suffer the consequences of playing with peoples lives by pitting people against each other. It was my biggest mistake on this forum to support that he stay on this forum few years back. Then to see my error and confront him point blank than then have him fire back and experience other Christians rallying behind his mocking bitterness and join in it, is well, too much.
You see Hanna, we are to bless our enemies and so Ed won. I bless him with my departure. He will never save a soul, never help anyone through a difficult time, never lend a ear to anyone broken and hurting and at there wits end and deal with it where a person gets set free. He hates Christ and all Christians and is no friend to this forum. He denies the reality empirical evidence and yet openly has others join in the shouts of crucify. It is clear, I am not welcomed on this forum by those who have joined in his mocking.
Yes, I talked back to him. What do you expect from a man trained in the field of criminal justice to do who worked with sex offenders and violent adult criminals. For that I was accused for edging him on and deserving being beat down by Ed and thus those who joined him simply did not see how he used that to his advantage to divide the team against each other - so Ed won.
No one I warned or tried to have him banned would listen - they fell into the trap we learned in the field of working with criminals when the the C.O.'s (Correction Officers) develop empathy with the criminals more than doing their jobs and thus a Pod (House area) and soon an entire correctional facility staff is pitted against each other.
Ed plays the same games. Unfortunately, I was gamed and actually had Ed stay on when the ban issues came up. Such is life, we live and learn the hard way.
So yes - Ed won. He got rid of me and has allies here that will never abandon him, now. He will go after another victim and pit more people against each other with complete impunity. My prayer he wakes up and receives the biggest blessing - Jesus Christ into his life because where Ed is heading is a far worse place than any jail.
So for one militant atheist who is now a permanent member who will never be banned for any reason and for one christian on a Christian website who has helped many, they have Ed now - I am gone.
My prayer is that this site survives and that those who sided with Ed wake up and grow up. This is no game. People get hurt by cynicism, sarcasm, and blatant rudeness i.e. course jesting against not just myself but others members on this forum and this needs to stop.
I know they have gifts and talents God can use here to help people and have helped many, but that other stuff has to go. I hold no grudge against anyone here because I see potential that all can achieve what God has for them to become a better reflection of genuine Christlike-ness and less of the old self. They would be far more effective. But each of us must learn on his or her own from his/her mistakes - such is life. from this, we learn to show more Christ than ego self.
Therefore, if I hurt anyone here on this forum, I was wrong to do so, I ask for you forgiveness, and Thank you for letting me be a moderator here and able to help many lives here. That makes it all worth it.
I was not going to post why I am really leaving in the open. But it came up and people are wondering and need to know the truth.
I made my mistake sticking up for Ed and having him remain on this forum despite objections awhile back. I was wrong. Yes, I confronted directly, Trump like to Ed - I was wrong.
For that - some joined in and sided with Ed and said I deserved it because I talked back to Ed and then dumped on me on other threads - I forgive you.
So I, Thank You, Ed and the others who allied with him, for making me wiser and learning lessons I need to learn. Be blessed and go in peace.
Bryan W Melvin
Author and Speaker
P. S - I will keep mentioned this website when I am on the Radio and pray that there will be a bump in views here as there has in been the past - last bump was smaller than the others but such is life...
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He has been an amazing support to me in so many ways.
). But it's very true, you can help a lot of people by sharing what you've learned, what you've been through. We've learned a lot around here by knowing of your schooling at UHK (University of Hard Knocks)!
