Byblos, when I read this this is what I hear....I will go through the prayer and show you where I don't see the similarities to simply asking a friend to pray for me.
Novena To St. Peregrine
Glorious wonder-worker, St. Peregrine, you answered the divine call with a ready spirit, and forsook all the comforts of a life of ease and all the empty honors of the world to dedicate yourself to God in the Order of His holy Mother.
You labored manfully for the salvation of souls. In union with Jesus crucified, you endured painful sufferings with such patience as to deserve to be healed miraculously of an incurable cancer in your leg by a touch of His divine hand.
I don't think I have ever heard anyone say to someone they want to pray for them: "Oh glorious friend"...to me me this seem offering praises and lifting them up to a higher place than simply a fellow Christian who is praying for you. I don't mind the description and the honoring of her....it's nice to recognize a faithful servant....I'm not a fan of the "glorious"...unless we start calling each other "glorious"... it seems that she is "sepcial"
Obtain for ***** the grace to answer every call of God and to fulfill His will in all the events of life. Enkindle in my heart a consuming zeal for the salvation of all men.
Obtain for me? That sounds an awfully similar to addressing someone who has the power to obtain it. I would never ask someone to pray for me with the idea that they could obtain it for me. To me, this sounds again like we are lifting someone up to a higher power, as if God has assigned them distribution of that particular gift.
Deliver her from the infirmities that afflict *****'s body.
Not "please ask for deliverance from her iniquities from Christ"....but [you] "deliver her"...this may seem like quibbling but to me this seems like a direct request that this saint do something herself, not that she seek Christ in prayer.
Obtain for her also a perfect resignation to the sufferings it may please God to send her, so that, imitating our crucified Savior and His sorrowful Mother, she may merit eternal glory in heaven.
again, obtain for her, not ask Christ to give her. If I were to ask someone to pray for me, I am not asking for themselves to obtain it for me....I am asking them to directly communicate to Jesus WITH me.
St. Peregrine, pray for Linda and for all who invoke your aid.
Prayer to Saint Peregrine
O great St. Peregrine, you have been called "The Mighty," "The Wonder-Worker," because of the numerous miracles which you have obtained from God for those who have had recourse to you. For so many years you bore in your own flesh this cancerous disease that destroys the very fibre of our being, and who had recourse to the source of all grace when the power of man could do no more. You were favoured with the vision of Jesus coming down from His Cross to heal your affliction. Ask of God and Our Lady, the cure of the sick whom we entrust to you.
Now this last line is the only similarity I find to asking a close friend to pray for me. The rest I find rather unsettling, giving too much power to a fellow believer in Christ. And again, why the need to ask a saint to "obtain for her"? Why place others in between Christ and myself? It seems to me that it would be an easy thing to change the tone of these prayers to better reflect the idea that this is simply asking a fellow Christian to pray for us. Otherwise it comes off that God has assigned a task to these saints and they have a direct line to Him, able to change and persuade Him.
Thanks for discussing this, Byblos.