Interesting. Do you believe this ? Romans 10:13- 15 - "Everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved." How, then, can they call on the one they have not believed in? And how can they believe in the one of whom they have not heard? And how can they hear without someone preaching to them? And how can they preach unless they are sent? As it is written, "How beautiful are the feet of those who bring good news!". So, isn't it primarily up to us to bring the good news ? However, I do agree that it is not completely our work and must take the work of the Holy Spirit to convict and regenerate a person.If I believed that it were completely or primarily up to me to affect the salvation and decision of another person, then that would indeed argue for my love for others (even a selfish love for those whom I directly know and care for) to motivate me to use every effort and waking moment.
I grew up in quite an evangelistic local church and my parents were both saved from very non-church backgrounds. This church, in those days, was very concerned with the eternal destiny of others and not only pleaded with people to be saved but prayed constantly with many tears for the salvation of the lost. They not only believed in hell as a very endless torment place but also lived with the expectation that the rapture would take place at any moment and many would be left behind. There was much urgency, much praying and much sharing the Gospel in their evangelistic efforts.
Today, in my current setting, in a somewhat small 'e' evangelistic church, it seems like this urgency is gone. People talk about a 'faith journey' and are reluctant to 'rush someone to a faith that doesn't take effect'. The urgency thought I grew up with that 'today is the day of salvation and don't harden your heart if God is speaking to you' seems to no longer exist in the setting I am in. Instead I hear terms like - 'You may be kicking the tires and checking this Christian thing out. So take your time and give it much thought'. The altar call/decision time part of a service has been removed. Although I agree in not trying to humanly force a decision on the one hand, on the other hand I still believe that once the Gospel has been understood there is still an urgency to respond. (Life would be much simpler if I had Calvinistic beliefs ).
So, I wonder if this change happened because the concept of eternal torment is seldom, if ever, preached today or most people, in their hearts, really don't believe it anyway so why feel salvation has any urgency ?
Sorry, I may be going down a bunny trail here and wandering off topic. Personally, I think I should be so taken up with the free gift of abundant life in Christ, free from the bondage of sin, that this should motivate me most to be evangelistically involved so others can share in this life. I really think this was closer to the motivator in the early church rather than being motivated by fear of endless torment whether they believed in it or not. I admit that I am not loving my neighbour as I should when I don't share such a great salvation.
Whoops, I'm rambling on. Anyway, thanks Bart. You gave me more to ponder on this.