Re: Cross Dressing/Transvestitism!
Posted: Wed Feb 23, 2011 9:42 pm
Hi Seraph! Thank-you, you have help to inspire me as well.Seraph wrote:I liked your post J.Davis. I was inspired by the wisdom in it and don't really disagree with it. And thanks for the words of encouragement.
I guess I feel that a transvestite sitting in the pews is much less harmful to a church than a couple fornicating in the back, or merchants offering substitute sacrifices for a price like in Jesus' day. In the latter cases, they are clearly people deliberately committing sins in the church with no regard for the Bible whatsoever. And in the case of the transvestite, if their agenda was to sit in at the church dressed like that in a hostile statement against God and Christianity, I would say they should most certainly be asked to leave.
Yes, some will see one sin as more severe than another, it is different for everyone and many will say that their sin is not that bad, so even though you may feel that two people fornicating in the back of the church is unacceptable (so do I by the way…lol), another person can say: It is not fornication because we made a verbal agreement to be husband and wife before engaging in the act of love and we believe that God predestined our holy union so we are worshiping and honoring God by ministering to needs he has placed in our hearts, it’s beautiful and pleasing in God’s sight. And who are you to judge our righteous act and say it is wrong when you allow that man to dress as a woman in God’s house?
I said in my pervious post that we can not see into the heart of a person and many will say that it looks like sin, therefore it is. If an individual is allowed to practice what appears to be intentional sin in church, why can’t another practice his or her preferred sin in the church (idol worship, porn, stealing, witchcraft and various dark arts etc)? And if those in charge of God’s house allow Individuals to practice that which appears to be intentional sin in the house of God, then who are they to say that the same sin should not be practiced in private?
Everyone will want to have things there way, but God has already set the boundaries of righteousness. He does not approve of any sin at all, He tolerates it and understands that we are humans, but for our own good He does not want us to do it. It is best to follow His lead and not approve of any evil (not good to do) sin, be understanding of it and tolerant (even forgiving ourselves), but we should not approve of it. And in a place that is recognized as God’s house, no one should have the nerve to intentionally sin.
I understand, but I believe it would take some serious unrealistic leaps of reasoning and very uncommon circumstances for a person living in this day and age to be oblivious to what others think of their overwhelmingly socially rejected lifestyle as well as being oblivious to the fact that at the very least, behaving as a sex that you do not appear to be is something that the majority of Christians do not approve of. And again, it still looks like sin…Seraph wrote:But the scenario I had pictured in my head was a genuine person seeking after God but at the same time has a fixation for dressing like the opposite gender but is unwilling to even go to church without dressing like that or is simply unaware of it being sin. In this scenario, I think that forcing them to leave would essentially be abandoning them due to a single sin.
Now I chose my words carefully here concerning the paragraph above, there is a difference between what a number of Christians approve of and what God approves of. As far as God is concerned, behaving one way and the actions you take in your heart can be (but don’t play with the idea) two different things. So long as one does not act on their feelings in a way that is not good (causes self corruption or the corruption of others), they are not necessarily sinning, but that is a different topic.
However, I do not feel that any of the cross-dressers involved in this matter were ignorant concerning what they were doing. And they would all have a very hard time giving an acceptable reason (one that is right/good) for their actions in relation to anything Jesus would approve of concerning this matter.
Even if the cross-dressers clothes made him feel comfortable, it is still right to respect another’s house and set aside things that he knows is offensive to the owner of the house, it’s only a few hours, not much to ask if you believe that you are going to God’s house. I am sure that Jesus would respect the rules of the cross-dressers house, so long as He was not required to sin (in that case He would leave). But it’s not abandonment, just a request to change into something that is considered appropriate for his sex, the cross-dresser can come right back, or maybe someone can buy him clothes from a near by store if his house is far away or work out other arrangements like letting him wear a church robe etc. If the cross-dresser really believes that he is going to church to meet or receive God, and that is what he wants, nothing will stop him and he can deal with a few hours of not having his way.
But in all cases, it needs to be made clear that the church does not approve of anything that looks like intentional spiteful sin (even if that was not the intentions of the cross-dresser) in a place that people recognize as being the house of God. Once those who do not know the word are made aware of the word, then they have an obligation to behave in the way God approves of, especially when we are in His House, in front of His children and guest, and that goes for all of us.