Re: Agnostic(Atheist) looking for good discussion
Posted: Wed Sep 18, 2013 4:36 am
Lunelle, may I ask you why have you come here?
You already think you are right...are you here to show us how absurd and lunatic our position is to you? Because if that is the case then don't bother, we are very much aware of the fact.
So far you haven't tried listening at all, all you have been doing is rebutting and perhaps if that is the reason you came here, to sharpen your argument skill then you are doing it at a cost which is really not good. There is no point in engaging a discussion unless you want to understand the argument. No need to waste time rebutting things over and over. I get what you are saying. My honest opinion is you have little understanding of our belief and our motivations for having it. You may not be doing it intentionally but all of your posts have basically made me sad. Sad for once that I think you have a seriously twisted view of faith. We disagree on how we see things. And thats fine, you can hang around, ask questions, rebut them if you need but you don't go insulting what we believe, just because you think you differ. I can not help but notice that you have really no trouble painting us with broad brushes and stereotypes.
I have been on atheist boards and I can tell you if you are trying to impress people with your argument then you have chosen the wrong road. The best way to know people is to know them rather than their ideas. That is what helps get the message across.
I think you need to understand that while faith may seem like total crap to you, to us it is something we hold dear. You come here and you start what you don't like about it, thats fine, technically you can, we are very much tolerant of these kind of things, but that does not mean you will make any good friends here. That will only happen when you will be respectful of the people you are engaging with. Have you seen me trashing you about with atheist stereotypes, then why are you doing it?
What really bothers me that in all of this debate you are really missing the chance to know the people who hold this faith. You come across as someone just wanting to vent out. I hope that is not the case.
Most of this is unwanted advice and you can trash this post if you like, but I think its important for you to understand why and what are you doing on a christian board if not to learn? just to argue seems like a thing that is an utter waste of time and I really do not see why you'd do that? You seem sharp enough, we are really not a fighting community for the sake of a debate and it will be good of you to realize that.
You already think you are right...are you here to show us how absurd and lunatic our position is to you? Because if that is the case then don't bother, we are very much aware of the fact.
So far you haven't tried listening at all, all you have been doing is rebutting and perhaps if that is the reason you came here, to sharpen your argument skill then you are doing it at a cost which is really not good. There is no point in engaging a discussion unless you want to understand the argument. No need to waste time rebutting things over and over. I get what you are saying. My honest opinion is you have little understanding of our belief and our motivations for having it. You may not be doing it intentionally but all of your posts have basically made me sad. Sad for once that I think you have a seriously twisted view of faith. We disagree on how we see things. And thats fine, you can hang around, ask questions, rebut them if you need but you don't go insulting what we believe, just because you think you differ. I can not help but notice that you have really no trouble painting us with broad brushes and stereotypes.
I have been on atheist boards and I can tell you if you are trying to impress people with your argument then you have chosen the wrong road. The best way to know people is to know them rather than their ideas. That is what helps get the message across.
I think you need to understand that while faith may seem like total crap to you, to us it is something we hold dear. You come here and you start what you don't like about it, thats fine, technically you can, we are very much tolerant of these kind of things, but that does not mean you will make any good friends here. That will only happen when you will be respectful of the people you are engaging with. Have you seen me trashing you about with atheist stereotypes, then why are you doing it?
What really bothers me that in all of this debate you are really missing the chance to know the people who hold this faith. You come across as someone just wanting to vent out. I hope that is not the case.
Most of this is unwanted advice and you can trash this post if you like, but I think its important for you to understand why and what are you doing on a christian board if not to learn? just to argue seems like a thing that is an utter waste of time and I really do not see why you'd do that? You seem sharp enough, we are really not a fighting community for the sake of a debate and it will be good of you to realize that.