Re: My Board Certification
Posted: Mon Nov 24, 2014 9:35 am
congrats
"The heavens declare the glory of God; the skies proclaim the work of his hands." (Psalm 19:1)
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It has been a long time, hasn't it? For years I was working towards being a professor. I got a BA in religious studies and then an MA in apologetics. Around the time I was finishing the BA and starting the MA, I married Gretchen. We wanted to move to Chicago so I could go to Trinity Evangelical Divinity School where I was going to get an MA in Old Testament and Semitic Languages, but she had just started her degree program. So that was when I got the MA in apologetics and wrote the thesis on DS. I also decided that I did not want to be the kind of professor who was terribly dry because he had never actually done the thing he was teaching (I sat under too many of those). A friend of mine was a hospital chaplain and recommended I take a unit of CPE (Clinical Pastoral Education). I figured if I couldn't make my theology work at the bedside, it probably wasn't worth boring my students with, so I signed up. In the meantime, I took a job as an adjunct professor of apologetics at a local seminary teaching undergrad students. I found out through that that I really don't want to be a professor. As it turns out, though, I really LOVE the chaplaincy. So I decided to make a career change. Rather than go to TEDS, I went to Liberty (much cheaper option!). I needed an MDiv (which I hadn't gotten because it wasn't required to be a prof; I was just going to have the BA, two MAs, and a PhD). I also needed a year of full time work as a chaplain resident, good for four more units of CPE. So I did that at a major research hospital in Atlanta called Emory University Hospital. I just finished that program in June. THAT was intense.Kurieuo wrote:Glad to hear you moving forward to where you want to be.
I often wondered what it is you studied and overall life journey since we both began here.
Especially given the many ups and downs with your seeming love-hate relationship for G&S and this board.
But, seems there's been some mellowing especially in recent years.
So I'd be interested to know about what was happening in your life over the past dozen years.
BUT, Congratulations! Hope things work out more for you.
Most people have that misconception. But then again, so did I before I started the program. There is some rebranding going on, though. There is a pretty big move away from "chaplains" towards "spiritual care providers." I don't know how I feel about that, but I get what they are trying to do. I'm just concerned that the new terminology is less about being clear and wreaks far more of political correctness.Proinsias wrote:Glad to hear it. I always thought of 'hospital chaplain' as a Christian position but I've never experienced death of a loved one outwith the Catholic church.
It is still in the works. But I have made significant progress. Part One is effectively finished (five chapters). I've submitted it to a few people for review and gotten broadly positive feedback. I'm in the middle of part two (three chapters), and actually this week I had something of a breakthrough on how to handle a difficult portion. The material is easy enough to define. But how you talk about this stuff without getting lost in technical jargon . . . that's the art. And that, more than anything, is what is taking so long. I've been pretty surprised at how hard it is to write on a more popular level and still be faithful to the importance of the subject matter being addressed. But I am pleased to say that I am actually very happy with how it is coming out. If I keep writing at the pace I am, I expect I'll finish Part Two next week and then Part Three sometime around Christmas. We'll see! Thanks for asking./offtopic
I recall you were writing a book/paper/thing as a sort of layman's guide to divine simplicity. Did I miss it? is it still in the works?
Sure. My academic training, of course, required I take several courses in pastoral counseling, so I learned about several approaches to grief counseling. Actually, I've found that grief counseling is far more about what not to do than anything else. But, anyway, after than, I took five units of CPE, which is basically training for grief counseling on steroids. We had to learn to distinguish between the different types of losses (i.e., material, physical, interpersonal, relational, symbolic, etc.), simple v complicated grief, how to recognize anticipatory grief, etc. I'm a fan in general of Brueggemann's model of orientation->disorientation->new orientation. Anyway, all of that theoretical stuff had to be practically and concretely applied in our practice. We would have to take about one session with a patient per week and transcribe as much as we could remember from the conversation verbatim (so, those are called "verbatims"). We then had to analyze it, identify what we were feeling in ourselves, what we picked up from the patient, what theories we were relying on as we worked through the issues, why we chose to explore the issues we did with them, what we could have done better, how much of what we did (and why) was really coming from our own stuff (i.e., counter-transference), etc. Then our supervisor, who had about 20 years experience doing this, including training as a therapist, would rip our work to shreds and half the time we would find out that we only thought we were talking about the pt's concerns, when, in fact, we were far more worried about ourselves. All that lead to our own grief counseling! I've also had some training in group sessions (I worked on a psych unit for awhile), critical incident stress debriefing, and general work on managing transitions both professionally and personally. Next year my work is sending me to Little Rock to get some crisis training to learn how to deal with catastrophic events, and I'll probably do a few more weeks of continuing education in grief counseling specifically.PaulSacramento wrote:Congrats Jac !
I am glad that things are working out the way you want them to.
I am curious as to what kind of training ( in terms of dealing with grief) you have, care to share?
Well said and quite correct.But for all that . . . I'll just say that until you've sat next to a woman who is holding her baby as the child is extubated and you watch that baby take her last breath in her mother's arms . . . shy of that, it's all just theory. And in that moment, the theory doesn't mean much of anything. At that point, all you can do is hold on for dear life and pray that you don't say anything that will make the situation worse. By and large, I've learned the best grief work is to not say anything at all. I've often remarked to my colleagues that Job's friends provided GREAT pastoral care for the first seven days they were there. It was only when they opened their mouth and started talking that they went off the rails. I mean, honestly, if you sat with me in a session, you would probably be surprised at how little I actually say. I trained a few pastoral aids a few weeks back, and one of them raved for days about how "great a listener" I supposedly am. I finally just told him it's not that I'm a particularly good listener. It's that I have learned to shut my mouth and let the other person talk. I know how to ask a well placed question or make a gentle observation. That's just the training. But, really, the patient does pretty much all the work.
An atheist chaplain. That makes sense.Jac3510 wrote:...Oddly enough, we had an atheist in my CPE residency program. Her "faith group" was a unitarian church that explicitly said in its "doctrinal statement" that it was a place for both believers and unbelievers alike to come and share unconditional love and "spiritual growth." Obviously, for her, "spiritual" had a very different meaning, but it was fun, not to mention helpful, to have her in the program. It really forced us to take seriously the notion of being able to work alongside of and minister to people of every faith group, including those who are of no faith at all. Anyway, she said a similar thing to you here--she found the program extremely valuable. I don't know if she ever found a position. Finding a job as a hospital chaplain requires putting out resumes nation wide, so you don't really get to keep in touch with your other residents. But all the same, she was a good chaplain, so I'm sure she's doing well enough for herself.
I don't know if it's tiredness, but you made me laugh.Furstentum Liechtenstein wrote:An atheist chaplain. That makes sense.Jac3510 wrote:...Oddly enough, we had an atheist in my CPE residency program. Her "faith group" was a unitarian church that explicitly said in its "doctrinal statement" that it was a place for both believers and unbelievers alike to come and share unconditional love and "spiritual growth." Obviously, for her, "spiritual" had a very different meaning, but it was fun, not to mention helpful, to have her in the program. It really forced us to take seriously the notion of being able to work alongside of and minister to people of every faith group, including those who are of no faith at all. Anyway, she said a similar thing to you here--she found the program extremely valuable. I don't know if she ever found a position. Finding a job as a hospital chaplain requires putting out resumes nation wide, so you don't really get to keep in touch with your other residents. But all the same, she was a good chaplain, so I'm sure she's doing well enough for herself.
By the way, my mechanic wasn't able to fix my brakes, so he decided to make my horn louder.
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Okaaaay...but being funny wasn't the point of my comment. Does "atheist chaplain" sound like nonsense only to me?Kurieuo wrote: I don't know if it's tiredness, but you made me laugh.
No more nonsense than a married bachelor.Furstentum Liechtenstein wrote:Okaaaay...but being funny wasn't the point of my comment. Does "atheist chaplain" sound like nonsense only to me?Kurieuo wrote: I don't know if it's tiredness, but you made me laugh.
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While I didn't have any atheists in my Theology classes when I was getting my degree, we did have 3 agnostics.RickD wrote:No more nonsense than a married bachelor.Furstentum Liechtenstein wrote:Okaaaay...but being funny wasn't the point of my comment. Does "atheist chaplain" sound like nonsense only to me?Kurieuo wrote: I don't know if it's tiredness, but you made me laugh.
FL
Actually FL, I noticed that too. But I didn't say anything because I didn't want to rain on Jac's parade. How would it sound if we said that Jac was just as qualified to be a chaplain, as an atheist?
Indeed, I recall more then once hearing that the existence of God, for SOME, hampers more than helps at times.Jac3510 wrote:If spiritual needs are an objective part of reality, just like morality is, then atheists can work to meet them, too. And, to that extent, you would be surprised when you watched her ministry at how much what she does is exactly what you would be doing if you were in her shoes. Granted, there are some things that would be different. But there is a HUGE overlap, believe it or not. What you have to be careful about here is to avoid confusing evangelism with spiritual care. There is a place for evangelism. But there is also a place for loving people where they are . . . rather than talking about Jesus, just showing them Jesus. You all should know me well enough not to read into my words a denial of the necessity of evangelism. But I can also tell you that if you do things in the wrong way, if carts get put before horses, so to speak, then not only will your evangelism be ineffective, it can also be positively harmful.
So can an atheist show the love of God? If an atheist can love people at all, then they can. And they do, on both counts. Obviously, her ministry is severely hampered by her denial of Christ, and that in more ways than one. But I have no problem saying after three years of doing this job full time that there are atheists who make very good spiritual care providers. Far from suggesting, then, that God doesn't exist, I think, in line with the argument from objective morality, that just strengthens the case that spiritual needs are real and are really and ultimately fulfilled in Christ.
Jac wrote:But there is also a place for loving people where they are . . . rather than talking about Jesus, just showing them Jesus.
Very well said my friend, very well said indeed.Jac3510 wrote:Very much, Paul. With those kind of people, I end up doing what is called an implicit spiritual assessment. It is just a fact of humanity that we need God, and so without God Proper, we make gods out of things. We attribute divinity and perfection and ultimate meaning to this or that. But all such language is really language about God, even if the person doesn't know it. So if someone is very angry or hurt at God over the evil in their life, it is sometimes far more helpful to do implicit theological work than have a discussion about whether or not God really exists in Himself as you and I understand Him to. Such a discussion would not only increase spiritual distress (which is a medically diagnosed condition, by the way, with real physical results), it could increase related issues like anxiety, depression, raise blood pressure, and have an overall negative impact on someone's health. It could also serve to further alienate the person whom you are "caring" for, and if all that weren't enough, it isn't even necessary to have the conversation. God's existence is a red herring. The real issue is what their need in that moment. It's far more of an art that a science, but if we practice it well, we really can provide healing; and through that healing, people can find themelves at a place where faith in Christ seems like the most natural thing in the world to do.
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And see my edit in my post above. Some of what I'm talking about here I illustrate with a possible conversation between an atheist and Christian in which the atheist is the one providing spiritual care.