Philip wrote:Melanie: Philip, perhaps the question is does the 'church' view homosexuals as anti-God and placed them into this militant perverse, God hating group that seeks to destroy at any cost the integrity and belief system of Christians verses the actual reality of the situation.
Homosexuals at not militant, God hating people. Sure there are some with agendas but that scenario as far as I see it, roles across the board. Extremism and extreme views are evident across the spectrum.
Mel,
MOST homosexuals and those who don't see anything wrong with it are NOT part of my described aggressive and militant core. But, that militant core and their supporters are definitely strategizing how to legally take away the rights of Christians (in the U.S.) to live out their faith as they so see God honoring. One huge problem is the state tying benefits to marriage - the state has no business having ANYTHING to do with marriage, WHATEVER ones beliefs or orientation.
Mel, I do hope you can see my concern has nothing to do with not loving and caring about homosexuals - that would be a peversion of my views, as well as NOT honoring God's instructions to love ALL. People are free to live their lives as they want to, AS LONG AS their beliefs aren't allowed to trample my ability to live out my faith as I so desire to. And, I would feel the same about ANY groups of any beliefs doing so!
Knowing you as best a person can in this internet world, I have no doubt Philip that you care and love all including homosexuals.
I also acknowledge that I don't live in the States so perhaps my grasp on the situation is more from an outsider looking in, but I can draw on parallels because we are having the same issues here in Australia. With perhaps one major difference, I don't believe our religious freedom has been impacted to the same degree.
My eldest two children have attended Catholic schools, but my youngest two next year will be going to a state school. I had a conversation with a principle a few weeks back and asked about religious education within State Primary Schools. All children have access to Christian Education, for an hour a week, in school time across every school in my state. Of course it is optional but when I asked him how many students were attending he said that in the 20 years that he has been Princible it has always been the majority.
So whilst state schools in the U.S. if my understanding is correct has no religious education that is conducted in school time, here in Australia state schools continue to do so.
I was shocked to realise that there are atheist groups within the U.S. that have websites asking people to report if any school is providing Biblical literature so that they can distribute counter atheist material to the students.
I came across one of these websites when I was responding to a post of EdwardMurphy.
There is clearly an agenda.
That boy who was asked to not pray in study time, I don't remember much more details of the case but I believe he took it to the courts and lost. That makes me mad. It's wrong. Not because he is Christian solely, even if he were Muslim and quietly praying with a few friends, during open study time, my response would be the same. I feel it is impeding on a person's rights.
So I'm not discrediting that there are militant groups with political influence who are pushing an agenda. It is clearly targeted towards Christians and religious freedom. And I'm not okay with it.
But I think it's important to not conflate homosexuals seeking marriage equality with individuals and groups with a political agenda to undermine religious freedom.
There is a degree of separation and I believe it's pretty large.
No doubt there are homosexuals within this group, along with heterosexuals. I would dare say that majority are heterosexual atheists.
Could they use marriage equality to further their agenda, I wouldn't be surprised. It is a political tactic, being employed to push what is no doubt an anti-God agenda.
But, and it's a pretty big but, this is NOT the agenda of the homosexual community as a whole. Most polls show that around half of homosexuals indentify as Christian. A much smaller percentage are atheists, with most polls showing around the 8-10 percent.
That is the point I was trying to get across in my previous post.
Motivation is important. The gay community's motivation was not to undermine the church, it was to have the right to marry. It is a consequence that this right violates many Christians beliefs but it is not their motivation.
If militant atheists want to twist the issue and use it as their motivation, I just don't think it's fair to lump that on the shoulders of the gay community.
It was the language you used that I took offence at. The militant, God hating, homosexuals.
This is not a cross section of the agenda of the gay community.
They are not God hating. Christians make up the biggest demographic percentage of homosexuals. Are they mixed up in their interpretations of scripture to justify a behaviour that they find impossible to control, quite possibly. It's a hard road to be a homosexual Christian. I am filled with compassion for them.
Hate the sin love the sinner.
Easier said than done. Love is kind, it is patient, it is rooted in compassion and understanding.
I think too few within the church truly mean or understand what love requires when we have drawn a line in the sand and placed them on the outside. If we 'fix' them then they can enter into the circle. Until then the line must be drawn, right?
Them and us.
The struggles that homosexual teens and young adults face is heart breaking. They are pushed out from their family homes, they are ostracised, when they 'come out', they church turns their back on them. I have read countless stories where this has been the case. The advice that so many churches gives to parents of homosexual teens, is tragic and it has tragic consequences.
Suicide rates of homosexual teens is alarming.
I read a while back the diary of a homosexual teenager who was a Christian, being raised by Christian parents.
This young man, prayed to God, begged Him to make him normal, prayed to have the desires taken away. The parents prayed, the church prayed, they took him to Christian counselling. He was told over and over again, these desires were evil, that God loved him, but hated homosexuality, that he must not ever give into the devil who was driving these tendencies. He was told they loved him, but hated the sin, his sin.
All this boy learnt was hate.
He hated himself, he thought God hated him and that he would dissapoint his parents and ultimately they would hate him.
He hung himself in his bedroom.
There is a blog, that is run by Christian parents who pushed their son out of their family home because he was gay. They never kicked him out, but he knew that to live under their roof he had to get all the 'gay' thoughts out of his head. The parents said how terrified they were that their son would come home with a boyfriend. They were so fearful of him being involved in the lifestyle. He ended up on the streets, addicted to drugs and died of an overdose.
When he was on the streets and they had lost contact, they realised how wrong they had been. How the fear changed for them, it was no longer that he would come home with a boyfriend but in a body bag.
Which is what happened.
They now run a hostel for Christian homosexual youths who have been kicked out of their family home, and run a ministry.
They have been inundated with hate mail, from the Christian community. All saying how they are condoning the behaviour. They are just trying to stop these children from dying, from hating themselves.
They are also trying to work through the grief, regret and shame for the way they treated their son.
Love is unconditional.
We are all sinners.
We are all broken in need of Jesus.
The Church has treated gays like they are the epitome of sinfulness. They have been called every damning name under the sun. They are sinful, evil, wicked, depraved, abominations in the sight of The Lord. We tell them that we love them then treat them with fear and suspicion and often loathing. Like the notion that the next step for the gay agenda is to force pastors to marry them against their religious beliefs. The evil, God hating gays are looking to undermine the church in what ever way they can. This is the start of their evil agenda, just wait and see what they will pull out next in their evil plan is to destroy our faith.
We treat them like their gayness is the sum of who are they are. And that equates to placing them outside of the line we have drawn in the sand.
We preach love but we project hate.
When we should be projecting compassion and understanding.
We shouldn't be drawing lines in the sand but erasing them. Closing the divide not widening it.
Embracing them.
Just as they are.
Broken.
Stumbling like the rest of us.
Jesus died for all of us, for every sin. His grace covers the sins of the world.
They are not too broken for Jesus, or too sinful.
They are no more the sum of their greatest sins and struggles than any of us.
But they live in sin, is what is said.
News flash.....
We all live in sin.
But we can't condone it. No one is asking us too.
Do we condone every sin that every person walks in struggle against. We don't condone greed, lust, selfishness, pride, vanity, anger, impatience, arrogance and the myriad of other sinful behaviour that we all fall and fail in everyday.
Yes they are sinners.
And they are children of God.
They need to know they are wanted, needed, important, worthy and loved within the family of Christ. That the church is waiting eager and with open arms to embrace them. Then I trust in God, I trust in the Holy Spirit to work in them in whatever way according to His plan and purpose.
We have a responsibility in our thoughts, our words, our actions and what we project into the world to make sure that we are not alienating anyone from the light and love of Christ.
I worry that we are over zealous in pointing out their sin at every opportunity available and under emphasising their worth and importance to God.
I am not a Christian who believes ohh there's nothing wrong with it, I am a Christian who believes there's something wrong with all of us, and God loves us anyway.
Show them love as it is the pathway to God.
The Almighty will work within their hearts and accomplish the rest. That may mean they still struggle but that is between themselves and God and it is not our place to act as judge and executioner.
I have seriously rambled on too much....
I am passionate about God, I'm passionate about people and I'm passionate about projecting the importance of embracing all of Gods children no matter how lost and broken they may seem.
Peace