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Re: Agape love: What is it?

Posted: Sat Oct 10, 2015 8:22 am
by melanie
Agape love is the highest form of love.
Derivative from God and what we may try to reciprocate under our best intentions but still always will fall short in our fallen state.
Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil; does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
We suck at that!
Even when we think we don't.
We can endeavour and strive but we still suck at it!
That is when humility convicts us more so than pointing the finger at others.
We know the truth, but we don't live it.
Jesus did.
We know what's possible but we struggle
Jesus took our struggles.
We can theologise agape love but Jesus lived it.
To wash the feet of another so below us, is agape love.
To hang on a cross for the sins of the world is agape love.
To have not only the righteous conviction but Godly Authority to show sinners their place but to take their place as Jesus did and show such compassion and forgiveness, empathy and sacrifice is the example.
It hurts.
It compromises.
It self sacrifice.
It is selflessness to a point we are not comfortable with.
It convicts at times, it may be a point of contention but it always ends in love.
If we can question and query the word of God but then it must be done in a spirit of patience, a spirit of love and a spirit of understanding if we ever think that humility in understanding can be reached.
We have to consider our brothers and sisters.
Not a heart of you heretic sinner that will burn in hell but rather a voice of peace, a voice of love that unites and seeks to not divide.
I am not talking about a feel good version of Christianity but rather a heartfelt version.
We are fallen and shite at this.
We know it!
Let's get real.
Agape love is what our heavenly creator is capable of, we are not!
Our best efforts is only testament to our failure.
It is our humanity and our humility that is genuine. And that is our testament and calling card to Christ.
Look at how good I'm doing??
Or look at how far I'm failing???
We need need our saviour just as desperately as the next.
When we are brave enough and honest enough and sincere enough to acknowledge just how much we need Jesus as our contemporaries then maybe we will be humble enough to wash the feet of the very least of us!

Re: Agape love: What is it?

Posted: Sat Oct 10, 2015 7:13 pm
by B. W.
Been holding off for a bit on responding to this topic as there very good postings here.

Let's have a little bit of Greek lesson here. Greek New Testament reads:

1 Co 13:5 ουκ ασχημονει ου ζητει τα εαυτης ου παροξυνεται ου λογιζεται το κακον
1 Co 13:6 ου χαιρει επι τη αδικια συγχαιρει δε τη αληθεια

English versions translations follow these two primary renderings:

1Co 13:5-6 NKJV, (Love/agape) does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil; 6 does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth...

1Co 13:5-6 ESV (Love/agape) or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; 6 it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. ESV

The question that arises on this thread is that Agape will never act provoked or think evil based on the English. Which translation best captures the Greek meaning from the Text is the ESV.

In fact, in verse five the word translated provoke is from the Greek word paroxúnō which means too: sharp, incite, irritate, to sharpen or whet as in to deliberately stir up people as the Proverbial fool does Proverbs 10:18 and Proverbs 18:2,6,7.

It has more to do with one who with devious motives, stirs the pot to gets one way by means of manipulation. Agape love does not do that. Agape love does indeed become provoked and wrathful at wrong doing, abuse, neglect, harm, false teaching, etc and will act with force to protect the weak, etc... Being not provoked has nothing to do with pacifism at all and the Greek words, grammar, and tenses stress this in the text and in verse 6 - does not rejoice in wrongdoing/iniquity...

The phrase thinks no evil is also clarified in the Greek text as well too. The word translated as evil is kakós which means: worthless externally, cowardly, retreat in battle and in the moral sense one whose character is vicious, bad in heart, conduct, one who delights getting others in trouble and slanders undermines, sows discord, etc...

Those guided by God's agape do not act with kakós which means they do not act cowardly, retreat in battle, due to bad character...

So in essence Agape love does not run away from a battle in which evil threatens and let's evil win.

Now look at Verse 6 Agape - does not rejoice in iniquity. The word iniquity in the text in the Greek is adikía and it means: injustice, what is not conformable with justice, what ought not to be, that which is wrong. That which is out of harmony with díkē - righteousness, what is right, fit. This word means injustice...over wrongdoing(s)...

Agape - does not rejoice in iniquity (injustice/wrongdoing). In other words, Agape Love does not rejoice praise or condone injustice and wrongdoing...

I hope this helps clarify that the bible does not teach Christian to be milk toast but rather know the time when to be what, how, and when as Eccl 3:1-8 teaches by the Holy Spirit within.

Some folks inset human orientation into the definition of agape and wrongly conclude that God will never act harshly toward anyone because he is so lovingly agape filled by using 1 Cor 13:1-13 to back up that claim. Fact is, Revelation does not present this as fact and neither does the Apostles Paul, Peter, James, or even Jesus. Jesus warned against those that hurt a little child in the harshest of terms and that folks that reject his free offer of salvation will suffer a rejection / bansihment away from God forever in a terrible place reaping what they have sown.

Agape love is not for wimps nor does Agape love make wimps for Christ either!

Agape love also has been limited over time to mean tolerant, unconditional, wishy washy, and as dainty as a pansy.

The actually meaning of Agape form Greek and Hebrew follows along this definition: A Love that cherishes, edifies, trains, equips, rebukes, chastises so as to teach right from wrong, will not let you go. It has everything to do with teaching and instructing, protecting, helping, and protecting, cherishing, building one up, and even laying down your life for the ones loved, as well as casting away what is foul, evil, debased that uses apape as the means to get its own way. all without conditions... it is either changed by agape or remain unchanged - no conditions because agape reveals the heart by truth... freely to all...

No, Agape is not for wimps...

Ephesians 6:10 states this: Finally, be strong in the Lord and in the strength of his might. ESV

It does not say Finally, be passive in the Lord and in lack of his might...

God's agape would never say that to us ... instead it will cherish, train us, rebuke us, guide us, never let us go... for us to become strong in him and the power of his might! That is agape...
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Re: Agape love: What is it?

Posted: Sat Oct 10, 2015 9:47 pm
by Nessa
B. W. wrote:Been holding off for a bit on responding to this topic as there very good postings here.

Let's have a little bit of Greek lesson here. Greek New Testament reads:

1 Co 13:5 ουκ ασχημονει ου ζητει τα εαυτης ου παροξυνεται ου λογιζεται το κακον
1 Co 13:6 ου χαιρει επι τη αδικια συγχαιρει δε τη αληθεια

English versions translations follow these two primary renderings:

1Co 13:5-6 NKJV, (Love/agape) does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil; 6 does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth...

1Co 13:5-6 ESV (Love/agape) or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; 6 it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. ESV

The question that arises on this thread is that Agape will never act provoked or think evil based on the English. Which translation best captures the Greek meaning from the Text is the ESV.

In fact, in verse five the word translated provoke is from the Greek word paroxúnō which means too: sharp, incite, irritate, to sharpen or whet as in to deliberately stir up people as the Proverbial fool does Proverbs 10:18 and Proverbs 18:2,6,7.

It has more to do with one who with devious motives, stirs the pot to gets one way by means of manipulation. Agape love does not do that. Agape love does indeed become provoked and wrathful at wrong doing, abuse, neglect, harm, false teaching, etc and will act with force to protect the weak, etc... Being not provoked has nothing to do with pacifism at all and the Greek words, grammar, and tenses stress this in the text and in verse 6 - does not rejoice in wrongdoing/iniquity...

The phrase thinks no evil is also clarified in the Greek text as well too. The word translated as evil is kakós which means: worthless externally, cowardly, retreat in battle and in the moral sense one whose character is vicious, bad in heart, conduct, one who delights getting others in trouble and slanders undermines, sows discord, etc...

Those guided by God's agape do not act with kakós which means they do not act cowardly, retreat in battle, due to bad character...

So in essence Agape love does not run away from a battle in which evil threatens and let's evil win.

Now look at Verse 6 Agape - does not rejoice in iniquity. The word iniquity in the text in the Greek is adikía and it means: injustice, what is not conformable with justice, what ought not to be, that which is wrong. That which is out of harmony with díkē - righteousness, what is right, fit. This word means injustice...over wrongdoing(s)...

Agape - does not rejoice in iniquity (injustice/wrongdoing). In other words, Agape Love does not rejoice praise or condone injustice and wrongdoing...

I hope this helps clarify that the bible does not teach Christian to be milk toast but rather know the time when to be what, how, and when as Eccl 3:1-8 teaches by the Holy Spirit within.

Some folks inset human orientation into the definition of agape and wrongly conclude that God will never act harshly toward anyone because he is so lovingly agape filled by using 1 Cor 13:1-13 to back up that claim. Fact is, Revelation does not present this as fact and neither does the Apostles Paul, Peter, James, or even Jesus. Jesus warned against those that hurt a little child in the harshest of terms and that folks that reject his free offer of salvation will suffer a rejection / bansihment away from God forever in a terrible place reaping what they have sown.

Agape love is not for wimps nor does Agape love make wimps for Christ either!

Agape love also has been limited over time to mean tolerant, unconditional, wishy washy, and as dainty as a pansy.

The actually meaning of Agape form Greek and Hebrew follows along this definition: A Love that cherishes, edifies, trains, equips, rebukes, chastises so as to teach right from wrong, will not let you go. It has everything to do with teaching and instructing, protecting, helping, and protecting, cherishing, building one up, and even laying down your life for the ones loved, as well as casting away what is foul, evil, debased that uses apape as the means to get its own way. all without conditions... it is either changed by agape or remain unchanged - no conditions because agape reveals the heart by truth... freely to all...

No, Agape is not for wimps...

Ephesians 6:10 states this: Finally, be strong in the Lord and in the strength of his might. ESV

It does not say Finally, be passive in the Lord and in lack of his might...

God's agape would never say that to us ... instead it will cherish, train us, rebuke us, guide us, never let us go... for us to become strong in him and the power of his might! That is agape...
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If you were in the middle of witnessing to someone and they said they will kill you, what would you say/do?

Re: Agape love: What is it?

Posted: Sat Oct 10, 2015 10:08 pm
by Nessa
Im not sure if any of you have seen the cross sword and the switch blade movie. Basically David Wilkenson left his pregnant wife to go witness to one of the toughest gangs. David got 'abused' somewhat but he kept showing unconditional love and telling the gang about Gods love for them. Niki said to David 'If you come near me I will kill you'!'David replied that even if Niki cut him into a thousand pieces, every piece would cry out that I love you.

Do you consider that agape or abuse?

Re: Agape love: What is it?

Posted: Sun Oct 11, 2015 12:48 am
by B. W.
Nessa wrote:...If you were in the middle of witnessing to someone and they said they will kill you, what would you say/do?
I challenged Him to come forward and see who's God is stronger.

The Medicine man got out of his seat, took several steps toward the front where I was preaching mouthing off and threatening with every step. He then stopped, both arms went straight up into the the air as he shrieked loudly with extreme fear, turned and ran out of the tent meeting, and across the football field where we held the meeting - arms up shaking and shrieking loudly with extreme fear.

Next night he came to the meeting, he was distraught and told me that there was the biggest goomer he ever saw standing behind me and he took off. Others then led him to the Lord that July 2010 Mescalero NM, USA... witnesses by around 150 people....

So Nessa, I love you - what is your point?

I am already a dead man...
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Re: Agape love: What is it?

Posted: Sun Oct 11, 2015 1:07 am
by Nessa
My point was the way david loved him unconditonally which comes through in the movie and book.

Not everyone seems as simplistic as you with your dead man
mentality re: gun thread and sword thread.

Maybe Im wrong about agape anyway.

Re: Agape love: What is it?

Posted: Sun Oct 11, 2015 1:28 pm
by Nessa
Romans 5:6,7,8

So Jesus died saying "Father forgive them for they know not what they do"

That doesnt really cry out 'I will love them IF...' to me at all. y/:]

Even an atheist can love someone IF....

Whats so great about that?

Re: Agape love: What is it?

Posted: Sun Oct 11, 2015 1:55 pm
by Nessa
If i give you a gift, I can give it unconditionally, regardless of your response. You may, however, throw it in the trash.

While we were STILL sinners he loved us and died for us. That is the whole point. He didnt wait until we deserved it. He didnt wait until we checked all the tick boxes....

I agree to follow Jesus....YES/NO please circle your answer...

You can't seperate the unconditional act from the unconditional love.
The bible clearly says God died for all cos He loved all....not God died only for those who will choose him and will love him back.

:duel:

Re: Agape love: What is it?

Posted: Sun Oct 11, 2015 10:46 pm
by Nessa
now you're just messing with me, BW :P

You like my post but dont agree with unconditional love?
Maybe you just like the idea of sword fighting with me :mrgreen:

Re: Agape love: What is it?

Posted: Sun Oct 11, 2015 11:11 pm
by B. W.
Nessa wrote:If i give you a gift, I can give it unconditionally, regardless of your response. You may, however, throw it in the trash.

While we were STILL sinners he loved us and died for us. That is the whole point. He didnt wait until we deserved it. He didnt wait until we checked all the tick boxes....

I agree to follow Jesus....YES/NO please circle your answer...

You can't seperate the unconditional act from the unconditional love.
The bible clearly says God died for all cos He loved all....not God died only for those who will choose him and will love him back.

:duel:
I actually like your post.

We can have faith in God's love because he first loved us proving so on the cross. If one rejects God love shown, agape rejects.

In Romans chapter one Paul points out that all creation points to the Love of God, in that he makes the rain fall on the just and unjust. All humanity has been given a gift of life, freely. God tends to humanity even though they don't care anything about him and blame him for allowing all the woes we cause. He went to the cross for us to wake us up and resurrect us back to himself but their is a clear condition - John 3:16 - that is it. Trust in him and his faithfulness in what he has done. He did all the work for us to become saved as his own: called grace.

Those that reject his love will not be saved, sorry, that is not what unconditional means - does this make sense to you? I do not think you are implying that God's agape will save everyone but you came across that way to me so I reacted to it. If it was harsh, I am sorry.

As for the dead man quote: Jesus does mention that we are to die to self:

Luke 9:23-26, "And He was saying to them all, "If anyone wishes to come after Me, he must deny himself, and take up his cross daily and follow Me.24 "For whoever wishes to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for My sake, he is the one who will save it.

25 "For what is a man profited if he gains the whole world, and loses or forfeits himself?

26 "For whoever is ashamed of Me and My words, the Son of Man will be ashamed of him when He comes in His glory, and the glory of the Father and of the holy angels. 27 "But I say to you truthfully, there are some of those standing here who will not taste death until they see the kingdom of God." NASB


I consider myself already dead. Great cure for fear of what folks can do to you.

Do you realize that I go to some very dangerous places and minister the gospel? Probably not. Helped start some ministries and churches, train folks etc but I don't talk much about this because it is Jesus Christ who is important, not myself or what I do. Doing what and going where he sends, I watch in humble amazement as He pulls people up out of mire and how his grace changes their very life's course and direction. I have seen his agape in action as per the definition I posted above mentions. I could not go where he sends or do what he desire if I was afraid of death.

If I die, I know where I am heading and I desire to be there above all else but in his time. Some folks think this is is a wacky statement I use from a bygone era: I entrust myself into the care of a ever kind providence... Through, trials travail, storms, threats to life, hardship, good times, blessing times,happy and sad times all teach me his care in preparing me to heaven's land and I am at peace. I enjoy knowing that I'll see many there that God used me to bring along to heaven as well as help, all in his time. And Nessa, that goes for you too y@};-

Again if I came across to harsh sorry about that but please know that we assign the conditions to what unconditional agape means. Please consider what others say about agape...
Vines Expository Dictionary of the NT

Love/Agape/Agapao (Noun and Verb)

A. Verbs.
1. agapao (G25) and the corresponding noun agape (B, No. 1 below) present "the characteristic word of Christianity, and since the Spirit of revelation has used it to express ideas previously unknown, inquiry into its use, whether in Greek literature or in the Septuagint, throws but little light upon its distinctive meaning in the NT. Cf, however, Lev19:18; Deu6:5.

"Agape and agapao are used in the NT (a) to describe the attitude of God toward His Son, Joh17:26; the human race, generally, Joh3:16; Rom5:8, and to such as believe on the Lord Jesus Christ particularly Joh14:21; (b) to convey His wiil to His children concerning their attitude one toward another, Joh13:34, and toward all men, 1Th3:12; 1Co16:14; 2Pe1:7; (c) to express the essential nature of God, 1Jo4:8.

"Love can be known only from the actions it prompts. God's love is seen in the gift of His Son, 1John 4:9, 1John 4:10. But obviously this is not the love of complacency, or affection, that is, it was not drawn out by any excellency in its objects, Rom5:8. It was an exercise of the divine will in deliberate choice, made without assignable cause save that which lies in the nature of God Himself, Cf. Deut 7:7, Deut 7:8.

"Love had its perfect expression among men in the Lord Jesus Christ, 2Co5:14; Eph2:4; Eph3:19; Eph5:2; Christian love is the fruit of His Spirit in the Christian, Gal5:22.

"Christian love has God for its primary object, and expresses itself first of all in implicit obedience to His commandments, Joh14:15, Joh14:21, Joh14:23; Joh15:10; 1John 2:5; 1John 5:3; 2John1:6. Selfwill, that is, self-pleasing, is the negation of love to God.

"Christian love, whether exercised toward the brethren, or toward men generally, is not an impulse from the feelings, it does not always run with the natural inclinations, nor does it spend itself only upon those for whom some affinity is discovered. Love seeks the welfare of all, Rom15:2, and works no ill to any, Rom13:8-10; love seeks opportunity to do good to 'all men, and especially toward them that are of the household of the faith,' Gal6:10. See further 1 Corinthians 13 and Col3:12-14."*

* From Notes on Thessalonians, by Hogg and Vine, p. 105.

In respect of agapao as used of God, it expresses the deep and constant "love" and interest of a perfect Being towards entirely unworthy objects, producing and fostering a reverential "love" in them towards the Giver, and a practical "love" towards those who are partakers of the same, and a desire to help others to seek the Giver. See BELOVED.

Re: Agape love: What is it?

Posted: Sun Oct 11, 2015 11:25 pm
by B. W.
Agape defined from...
AMG's The Complete Word Study Dictionary

G26 Apape

ἀγάπη
agápē; gen. agápēs, fem. noun from agapáō (G25), to love. Love, affectionate regard, goodwill, benevolence. With reference to God's love, it is God's willful direction toward man. It involves God doing what He knows is best for man and not necessarily what man desires. For example, John 3:16 states, "For God so loved [ēgápēsen] the world, that he gave." What did He give? Not what man wanted, but what God knew man needed, i.e., His Son to bring forgiveness to man.

G25

ἀγαπάω
agapáō; contracted agapṓ, fut. agapḗsō. To esteem, love, indicating a direction of the will and finding one's joy in something or someone. It differs from philéō (G5368), to love, indicating feelings, warm affection, the kind of love expressed by a kiss (phílēma [G5370]).

(I) To love, to regard with strong affection (Luk7:42; Joh3:35; Joh8:42; Joh21:15; 2Co9:7; Rev3:9; Sept.: Gen24:67; Rth4:15). With the acc. of the corresponding noun, "his great love wherewith he loved us" (Eph2:4 [cf. 2Sa13:15]). Perf. pass. part. ēgapēménos, beloved (Eph1:6; Col3:12).

(II) As referring to superiors and including the idea of duty, respect, veneration, meaning to love and serve with fidelity (Mat6:24; Mat22:37; Mar12:30, Mar12:33; Luk16:13; Rom8:28; Sept.: 1Sa18:16). The pres. act. part. used substantively of those loving the Lord, meaning faithful disciples or followers of the Lord (Eph6:24; Jas1:12; Jas2:5; Sept.: Exo20:6; Deu5:10).

(III) To love, i.e., to regard with favor, goodwill, benevolence (Mar10:21; Luk7:5; Joh10:17). In other passages the effects of benevolence are expressed as to wish well to or do good to. To love one's neighbor, one's enemies (Mat5:43; Mat19:19; Mat22:39; Luk6:32). The fut. imper., agapḗseis, especially in regard to one's enemies, should not necessarily be taken to mean doing that which will please them, but choosing to show them favor and goodwill (Mat5:43-44). One should realize the need of people to be changed through Christ's grace, and do everything possible to bring them to a knowledge of the Lord. This may involve expressions of benevolence or even discipline and punishment, all as the outworking of this love. In 2Co12:15 it means, "even if, having conferred greater benefits on you, I receive less from you" (a.t.).

(IV) Spoken of things, to love, i.e., to delight in (Luk11:43; Joh3:19; Heb1:9; 1Jn2:15). The expression "not to love" means to neglect, disregard, condemn (Rev12:11, meaning they condemned their lives even unto death, i.e., they willingly exposed themselves to death). Other references: Mat5:44, Mat5:46; Mar12:31; Luk6:27, Luk6:35; Luk7:47; Luk10:27; Joh3:16; Joh11:5; Joh12:43; Joh13:1, Joh13:23, Joh13:34; Joh14:15, Joh14:21, Joh14:23-24, Joh14:28, Joh14:31; Joh15:9, Joh15:12, Joh15:17; Joh17:23-24, Joh17:26; Joh19:26; Joh21:7, Joh21:16, Joh21:20; Rom8:37; Rom9:13, Rom9:25; Rom13:8-9; 1Co2:9; 1Co8:3; 2Co11:11; Gal2:20; Gal5:14; Eph5:2, Eph5:25, Eph5:28, Eph5:33; Col3:19; 1Th1:4; 1Th4:9; 2Th2:13, 2Th2:16; 2Ti4:8, 2Ti4:10; Heb12:6; Jas2:8; 1Pe1:8, 1Pe1:22; 1Pe2:17; 1Pe3:10; 2Pe2:15; 1Jn2:10; 1Jn3:10-11, 1Jn3:14, 1Jn3:18, 1Jn3:23; 1Jn4:7-8, 1Jn4:10-12, 1Jn4:19-21; 1Jn5:1-2; Rev1:5; Rev20:9.

(V) Contrast with philéō (G5368), to be content with, denoting common interests, hence to befriend. Most scholars agree that agapáō is used of God's love toward man and vice versa, but philéō is rarely used by God of the love of men toward Him. In Joh21:15-16, it is a statement by Peter to Jesus and in verse seventeen it is only a question by Jesus to Peter. In verses fifteen and sixteen while Jesus was asking Peter, Agapás me? "Do you love me?" (a.t.)

Peter was answering, Philṓ se, "I am your friend" (a.t.). In verse seventeen for the third time Jesus asked Peter, but this time He said, Phileís me?, "Are you my friend?" (a.t.). Jesus indeed makes us His friends in His great condescension, but for us to call ourselves His friends is somewhat of a presumption.

In the first question of Jesus to Peter in Joh21:15, there is the comparison of love (agápē) toward Himself versus love toward material things, possibly the fish and bread which all were eating. The expression "more than these" may very well refer to the love of the other disciples present (Joh21:2).

Jesus was asking whether Peter's love was greater than that of the other disciples. In this question of Jesus to Peter in Joh21:15 there is also the comparison of love (agápē) toward Himself versus the love of the other disciples present (Joh21:2). Again Jesus was asking whether Peter's love was greater than that of the other disciples. Peter in his answer used the expression sú oídas hóti philṓ se, "thou knowest [oída (G1492), to know intuitively] that I am your friend [philéo (G5368)]" (a.t.).

That was an upgrading by Peter of his devotion to Christ. The Lord, however, intuitively knew that Peter had not accepted His determination to die while He could avoid death (Mat16:22-23). Not only did Peter not acknowledge Jesus as his friend, but denied that he even knew Him (Mat26:69-75), even as Jesus had predicted Peter would (Mat26:31-35). The Lord did not accept Peter's self- upgraded love from agápē (G26) to philía (G5373), friendship. We love (agapáō) God because He first loved us (1Jn4:10). But none of us, especially Peter, earn the right to declare ourselves friends (phílos [G5384]) of God. He alone can declare us as such, even as He did Abraham (Jas2:23).

The second question Jesus asked Peter was not the same as the first. It was not a question of comparison. He did not ask Peter, "Do you love [agapáō] me more than these?" but simply "Do you love me [agapáō]?" (author's translations). The Lord would be pleased with a personal statement of reciprocation of His love without a comparison of oneself to others. Jesus, being God incarnate, has intuitive knowledge of each one of His children.

Thus the Lord would not accept Peter's confession of personal attachment to Himself as that of friendship. Jesus intuitively knew that Peter was not always His devoted friend, for He knew that Peter would deny Him. Some have suggested that in this passage Christ was providing an opportunity for Peter to "redeem" himself from the earlier denial of the Lord.

The third question of Jesus to Peter was different, "Do you love me [philéō, Are you my friend]?" (a.t.). Are your interests, now that you have seen Me risen from the dead, different than before the resurrection? Peter became sorrowful because he understood the deeper meaning of Jesus' question (Joh21:17). His answer utilized two similar, but distinct verbs, oída, to know intuitively, and ginṓskō (G1097), to know experientially: "Lord, thou knowest, [oídas, intuitively] all things. Thou knowest [gínṓskeis, know experientially] that I love thee [philṓ, that I am now your friend]." When it comes to the expression of the love of the Father God to the Son God, both verbs, agapáō and philéō, are used. Joh3:35 states, "The Father loveth [agapá] the Son and hath given all things into his hand." In Joh5:20 we read, "For the Father loveth [phileí] the Son, and showeth him all things that himself doeth."

Agapáō and never philéō is used of love toward our enemies. The range of philéō is wider than that of agapáō which stands higher than philéō because of its moral import, i.e., love that expresses compassion. We are thus commanded to love (agapáō) our enemies, to do what is necessary to turn them to Christ, but never to befriend them (philéō) by adopting their interests and becoming friends on their level.

Deriv.: agápē (G26), love; agapētós (G27), beloved, dear.

Syn.: philéō (G5368), to befriend, love.
Ant.: miséō (G3404), to hate.

Re: Agape love: What is it?

Posted: Sun Oct 11, 2015 11:54 pm
by Nessa
are you saying we arent to befriend non christians? I must be reading wrong.

So you are saying theres a difference between underserved love and
unconditional love?

Thanks for sharing about yourself, I like knowing who people are....and you are humble which I really like

Re: Agape love: What is it?

Posted: Tue Oct 13, 2015 12:19 am
by B. W.
Nessa wrote:are you saying we arent to befriend non christians? I must be reading wrong.

So you are saying theres a difference between underserved love and
unconditional love?

Thanks for sharing about yourself, I like knowing who people are....and you are humble which I really like
Yes, you are reading me wrong... as I was you.

Undeserved love is quite different than unconditional...

Read John 3:15,16,36 and let me know if you see the difference. Look at the AMG definition again too:
AMG's The Complete Word Study Dictionary

G26 Apape

ἀγάπη
agápē; gen. agápēs, fem. noun from agapáō (G25), to love. Love, affectionate regard, goodwill, benevolence. With reference to God's love, it is God's willful direction toward man. It involves God doing what He knows is best for man and not necessarily what man desires. For example, John 3:16 states, "For God so loved [ēgápēsen] the world, that he gave." What did He give? Not what man wanted, but what God knew man needed, i.e., His Son to bring forgiveness to man.

G25

ἀγαπάω
agapáō; contracted agapṓ, fut. agapḗsō.

(II) As referring to superiors and including the idea of duty, respect, veneration, meaning to love and serve with fidelity (Mat6:24; Mat22:37; Mar12:30, Mar12:33; Luk16:13; Rom8:28; Sept.: 1Sa18:16). The pres. act. part. used substantively of those loving the Lord, meaning faithful disciples or followers of the Lord (Eph6:24; Jas1:12; Jas2:5; Sept.: Exo20:6; Deut 5:10).
The Hebrew word for love in the OT translated into the Greek Agape love contains the above two definitions.


Next, again befriending or having non-Christian friends is different that them having you become like just them.

Do you see the difference?
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Re: Agape love: What is it?

Posted: Tue Oct 13, 2015 12:32 am
by Nessa
B. W. wrote:
Yes, you are reading me wrong... as I was you.

Undeserved love is quite different than unconditional...

Read John 3:15,16,36 and let me know if you see the difference.

Next, again befriending or having non-Christian friends is different that them having you become like just them.

Do you see the difference?
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You said not to.become friends with enemies on 'their level'..what does that mean exactly?

If you love someone when.they havent earned it, then you are loving them regardless of their actions...loving someone.regardless of their action means the love is unconditional.

Re: Agape love: What is it?

Posted: Tue Oct 13, 2015 8:56 am
by B. W.
Nessa wrote:...You said not to.become friends with enemies on 'their level'..what does that mean exactly?

If you love someone when.they havent earned it, then you are loving them regardless of their actions...loving someone.regardless of their action means the love is unconditional.
What does the bible say on becoming unsaved friends on their level...

1Co 15:33 NASB, "Do not be deceived: "Bad company corrupts good morals."

1Co 15:33 NKJV, "Do not be deceived: "Evil company corrupts good habits."


Before we discuss the subject of love - how do you define what love means?

How can love without limitations really be love at all?

What if your Husband loved every other woman in the world as much as he loved you, same way and all freely, is that really love or something else?

How would you feel about that?

Back in he 1950's -60's is about the time the term unconditional love came into its heyday of meaning. Back then, it meant something different than it does today. The Term back then was used to denote that God accepts us without our conditions by accepting His which is: absolute surrender.

This term no longer means that today. The surrender part is not mentioned nor is the conditions of John 3:16, 36. God has been turned into a great big wuvey dovey cuddly Teddy Bear in the sky. At one time the term unconditional love expressed that God changes us to love him without our conditions. Today the term unconditional love assigns conditions to God's love by saying that all folks are so worthy of his love due to our great noble value that he just greases us up with grace so all slide into heaven no matter what. See the difference?

The term unconditional love does not mean what it once did, and, in fact, today's modern definition cannot be found in the bible. John 3:16 tosses in the proverbial monkey wrench in that.

God's love is undeserved is a true statement because by it he provides the means in which life can exist for all on this planet. God takes care of and nurtures folks undeserved in order to wake them up to the reality that they put Christ on the cross evidenced by their treatment of others and that they need to be expunged from this by his free gift. That gift is meant to change us to love and have faith in him for who He is. His love divides the house of humanity between those who are his from those who are not. Jesus mentioned that he came to bring a sword, not a box of roses.

The term unconditional love in modern terms today is not supported in the bible, however, as it once was used is...

...that God accepts us without our conditions by our accepting His which is: absolute surrender, which takes faith and that faith builds our love in him and changes. He sends the Holy Spirit to His own to seal them and lead them home through life's battles and victories. John 3:36 is true
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