Re: Masturbation
Posted: Sat Jan 23, 2016 2:40 am
Idk. I feel kinda bleh when I do it, but I think masturbation has to be taken in context.
I read an account from someone who went several months without masturbating delibrately, yet in his story he was "loving" several different women a week and constantly thinking about how he could meet new women to "love." That seems like the same issue just in a different form.
And even putting fornication aside, if you're constantly spending your time trying to find other outlets for your sexual energy, is that really any different? And what if you're gay or have other reasons why you can't find an outlet through a normal marriage?
So I think what's healthy is knowing yourself and being honest with yourself. I think it's better to consider how and why we've chosen, at any given instance, to masturbate, rather than whether we are or aren't in general.
I read an account from someone who went several months without masturbating delibrately, yet in his story he was "loving" several different women a week and constantly thinking about how he could meet new women to "love." That seems like the same issue just in a different form.
And even putting fornication aside, if you're constantly spending your time trying to find other outlets for your sexual energy, is that really any different? And what if you're gay or have other reasons why you can't find an outlet through a normal marriage?
So I think what's healthy is knowing yourself and being honest with yourself. I think it's better to consider how and why we've chosen, at any given instance, to masturbate, rather than whether we are or aren't in general.