B. W. wrote:When Jesus really has your heart, you change over time and follow him and his ways and his teachings from the bible. You endure trials, testing, and suffering. Go thru times of plenty and happiness ever growing closer to him never shaken by the good and bad times. You find yourself helping others as the Lord helped you
God remakes and shapes your heart in this life.
Kurieuo wrote:What would you say to those Christians who feel the opposite over time? If your words here are fully true, then perhaps, I'm not saved as I often feel the longer I live, the less happy, isolated, depressed, failing, less Christ-like and stable. Yet, my hope in Christ is nonetheless immovable, I can't see not ever being without Christ.
I say what has wounded your heart? That is the real issue. People, we all, experience traumas, rejection, being abandoned, falsely accused, hurt emotionally, abandoned in life. Often we grow up in families that show no true affection/closeness or the opposite really dysfunctional families, therefore, we learn to view this all as
normal life.
These are the things that cause us not to know God and ride the roller coaster of being up one day all for the Lord and next day crash. We all been there. I do counsel and pray for Christians regarding your question all the time...with this in mind...
2 Co 1:3-5,
Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, 4 who comforts us in all our tribulation, that we may be able to comfort those who are in any trouble, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God.5 For as the sufferings of Christ abound in us, so our consolation also abounds through Christ.
That is how it works. Jesus gave us the Holy Spirit by the new Birth and we are empowered by the same Spirit that Raised Jesus from the Dead which is the power of the Resurrection. That aspect is often forgotten. So if Rom 8:29 is true then Isaiah 61:1,2,3,4 is true for us as we have been anointed by the Holy Spirit and Jesus did not leave us as orphans to live in according to our woundedness.
Good news to those crushed in Spirit, you don't have to remain crushed our wounded
Heal the shattered (broken) Heart...
Proclaim liberty to those always being led astray (Captive)...
Opening the prisons which people hide in and find themselves bound - shackled too
Proclaim the acceptable year of the LORD, And the day of vengeance of our God;
"To comfort all who mourn, To console those who mourn in Zion, To give them beauty for ashes, The oil of joy for mourning, The garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness; That they may be called trees of righteousness, The planting of the LORD, that He may be glorified. And they shall rebuild the old ruins, They shall raise up the former desolations, And they shall repair the ruined cities, The desolations of many generations," Isaiah 61:2-4 NKJV
Remind them of the promise of Isaiah 44:3 is valid today and then help walk them through it by prayer and listening to them.
Kurieuo wrote:You might backtrack a little to say such is how things ought to play out, but in saying when "Jesus really has your heart", which I understand to be "truly has our heart", aren't you creating some kind of litmus test to judge between "Christians" who are truly saved and those who aren't... one that is kind of works based?
No...no litmus test - I do not adhere to a Christianize blacksmith approach of self works, litmus test, etc.
What I find is this: As people get free and shut the doors and windows left upon by traumas suffered, believing lies about oneself, and sin - people's issues vanish away in time. They do become free and stop opening these doors and they begin their own journey in his or her Christian walk learning to close the doors and windows of their soul they leave open that the devil exploits to keep folks comfortable sitting in the churches pews enjoying their own stench.
Now, a person doesn't have too close any doors or windows, but one must ask him or herself - how is it working for you?
Jesus came to break this cycle. How - by the power of the Blood of Jesus shed to forgive sins/transgressions, that cleanses us of daily issues where we don't cut it, etc, and to bring peace as in wholeness/soundness of heart, soul and mind. And realizing that due to the Resurrection power already inside us By the Holy Spirit, He did not leave us orphans, and will help raise us up out of the ash heap of life which we live...
For many the reason why this is not easy is simply one grows accustom and comfortable in misery as it is the only world they know. One bad prison to be in. So getting free takes time for some and others tire of it and shed it by the power of God working in them where they are no longer controlled by roller coaster ride, the despair, seeking attention, addictions of all types, and by God's power raised out of it and testify of the freedom He brings - living in it.
Again, a person doesn't have too close any doors or windows where the thief comes into to murder, rob, and ruin life, but one must ask him or herself - how is it working for you?
Kurieuo wrote:If so, then such imo is a false test and your words aren't entirely true. But then, what else is a Christian who feels miserable and often like they're failing God going to say? If you truly mean such words, I'd prefer you speak them boldly and support such thoughts Scripturally rather than backtrack. I know words like you've said above, they make sense in theory, but then I don't believe they are always true, maybe not even true for a large percentage or perhaps majority of Christians who understand the Gospel and hope in Christ.
I suggest to people to ponder the words of Isaiah 44:1-5 with the Hebrew name meanings added (by root meaning and contextual meaning) to the NKJV version quoted below:
Isa 44:1 "Yet hear me now, O Jacob (Heal Garbing supplanter) My servant, And Israel (strives with God) whom I have chosen.
Isa 44:2 Thus says the LORD who made you And formed you from the womb, who will help you: 'Fear not, O Jacob (Heal Garbing supplanter) My servant; And you, Jeshurun, (Those made Up-right) whom I have chosen.
Isa 44:3 For I will pour water on him who is thirsty, And floods on the dry ground;
I will pour My Spirit on your descendants, And My blessing on your offspring;
Isa 44:4 They will spring up among the grass Like willows by the watercourses.'
Isa 44:5 One will say, 'I am the LORD's'; Another will call himself by the name of Jacob (Heal Garbing supplanter of the devils kingdom); Another will write with his hand, 'The LORD's,' And name himself by the name of Israel (Prevailer and strives with God).
Read Isa 44:6,7,8 - God puts his own name on this... Acts 2:17,39 says what?
Isaiah 44:9-20 explains that folks put hope in their idols of the blacksmith and craftsman meaning their own ideas, own measure of success, formals, rituals, earn their gits form god, destiny, or fate by deal making. Have more faith in doubt than God used in some sort of dare to God that he can't set anyone free so one doesn't feel the heart wounds of rejection, abandonment, neglect, betrayal humiliation again.
Isa 44:21 "Remember these, O Jacob (Heal Garbing supplanter of the devils kingdom), And Israel (Prevails with God), for you are My servant; I have formed you, you are My servant;
O Israel, you will not be forgotten by Me!
Isa 44:22 I have blotted out, like a thick cloud, your transgressions, And like a cloud, your sins. Return to Me, for I have redeemed you."
Isa 44:23 Sing, O heavens, for the LORD has done it! Shout, you lower parts of the earth; Break forth into singing, you mountains, O forest, and every tree in it! For the LORD has redeemed Jacob, And glorified Himself in Israel.
Isa 44:24 Thus says the LORD, your Redeemer, And He who formed you from the womb: "I am the LORD, who makes all things, Who stretches out the heavens all alone, Who spreads abroad the earth by Myself;
Isa 44:25 Who frustrates the signs of the babblers, And drives diviners mad; Who turns wise men backward, And makes their knowledge foolishness;
Isa 44:26 Who confirms the word of His servant, And performs the counsel of His messengers; Who says to Jerusalem (the place of the Foundations of peace. wholeness, soundness [of heart and soul]), 'You shall be inhabited,' To the cities of Judah (Praise), 'You shall be built,' And I will raise up her waste places;
Isa 44:27 Who says to the deep (Metaphorically in bible means the abyss), 'Be dry! And I will dry up your rivers'...
People live too long drinking polluted waters from the abyss and rely on their rivers - ponder that
Isa 44:28 Who says of Cyrus, 'He is My shepherd, And he shall perform all My pleasure, Saying to Jerusalem, "You shall be built," And to the temple, "Your foundation shall be laid." '
Now we can pat ourselves on the back and say, this verse has only to do with Cyrus of old and say this whole chapter is only applicable way back then and not now. The works of the blacksmith and craftsman are so very evident in the church world today, aren't they. That is why folks don't find freedom...
Isa 44:28 Who says of Cyrus, 'He is My shepherd, And he shall perform all My pleasure, Saying to Jerusalem (Foundation of peace, wholeness soundness of heart and soul), "You shall be built," And to the temple, "Your foundation shall be laid." '
We are the new temple of the Holy Spirit - he did not leave us orphans.
Isa 44:1 "Yet hear me now, O Jacob My servant, And Israel whom I have chosen.
Isa 44:2 Thus says the LORD who made you And formed you from the womb, who will help you: 'Fear not, O Jacob
Isa 44:3
For I will pour water on him who is thirsty, And floods on the dry ground...
For I will pour water on him who is thirsty, And floods on the dry ground...
For I will pour water on him who is thirsty, And floods on the dry ground;
..I will pour My Spirit on your descendants, And My blessing on your offspring...
Isa 44:4 They will spring up among the grass Like willows by the watercourses.'
Isa 44:5 One will say, 'I am the LORD's'; Another will call himself by the name of Jacob (Heal Garbing supplanter of the devils kingdom); Another will write with his hand, 'The LORD's,' And name himself by the name of Israel (Prevailer with strives with God).
Kurieuo wrote:As for myself, as a Christian, I feel I've become less stable and whole over time. Life hasn't been what I expected or hoped, particularly with my own family and the spiritual side of things which is what matters to me most. Perhaps I am being hard myself, but I don't think I am, but if my life ought to have progressed in certain positive directions like you said, I think if anything the reverse has happened. I've become more unhappy, dissatisfied, irritable, annoyed, angry, grumpy, I feel less loving of people and society in general. Does Jesus therefore not really have my heart?
Welcome to the human race! Good news - Jesus came to actually save us and set us free!
Again suggest you ponder this
For I will pour water on him who is thirsty, And floods on the dry ground; I will pour My Spirit on your descendants, And My blessing on your offspring;
Are you thirsty? living in a desert?
What wells do you drink out of as manner of life - waters and rivers from the abyss? Craftsman, Blacksmith?
For I will pour water on him who is thirsty, And floods on the dry ground; I will pour My Spirit on your descendants, And My blessing on your offspring;
... Who confirms the word of His servant, And performs the counsel of His messengers; Who says to Jerusalem (the place of the Foundations of peace. wholeness, soundness [of heart and soul]), 'You shall be inhabited,' To the cities of Judah (Praise), 'You shall be built,' And I will raise up her waste places;
..."Thus says the LORD, the King of Israel, And his Redeemer, the LORD of hosts: 'I am the First and I am the Last; Besides Me there is no God. And who can proclaim as I do?
...Then let him declare it and set it in order for Me, Since I appointed the ancient people. And the things that are coming and shall come, Let them show these to them.
..Do not fear, nor be afraid; Have I not told you from that time, and declared it? You are My witnesses. Is there a God besides Me? Indeed there is no other Rock; I know not one.'"
...Who says to the deep (the abyss), 'Be dry! And I will dry up your rivers'...
For I will pour water on him who is thirsty, And floods on the dry ground; I will pour My Spirit on your descendants, And My blessing on your offspring;
Whom do you believe?
I had to, one day, cry out to the Lord how thirsty I was and so tired of living in a desert - I found the answer...
He indeed will pour water on him who is thirsty, And floods on the dry ground...
I will pour My Spirit on your descendants, And My blessing on your offspring...