RickD wrote: ↑Thu Feb 20, 2020 2:10 pmIf as a woman, you’re not ready to raise a child, KEEP YOUR DAMN LEGS SHUT!
The initial discussion was about Alabama criminalizing abortion even in the case of rape and incest, so your advice isn't going to help much.
Even if we hadn't been talking about women and girls who became pregnant involuntarily, your suggestion is simplistic and inadequate. It flies directly in the face of biology, for starters, and is really just an exercise in wishful thinking.
Beyond that, if the entire policy is "No abortions for sluts (or anyone else)!" then the result will be a lot of women (who you say should have kept their legs shut) and a bunch of kids (who seem blameless by any reasonable measure) being thrown into poverty and despair.
It's a great plan if you're looking to increase crime, drug addiction, and unwanted pregnancy. If that's not your goal then it's got some issues.
Byblos wrote: ↑Thu Feb 20, 2020 8:52 pmDon't get me wrong Rick, I'm all for repealing RvW, no argument there. All I'm saying is doing so, in and of itself, is not actually addressing the deeper problem of the disproportionate price women pay, driving them to seek abortions, which they will continue to do in back allies, paying even a heavier price. I mean look at what you're proposing, just keep your legs closed and the problem is solved. Putting the responsibility squarely in women's laps with not even a hint of any mention of male responsibility whatsoever. That's my issue.
I agree completely.
Byblos wrote: ↑Thu Feb 20, 2020 8:52 pmIt's not a criticism Rick. Sadly, I don't presume to know what the answers are, other than prayer.
Step One - accept that women and girls are going to have sex, now matter what, period, and stop judging, shaming, and punishing them for it.
Step Two - introduce programs to help those inevitably sexually active women and girls avoid pregnancy or deliver and raise a healthy baby if they happen to become pregnant.
In other words, lower the odds of an unplanned pregnancy, and take away some of the terror, desperation, and despair if it happens anyway.
Some guys will do the right thing, but others will be deadbeats no matter what, so how about if we just take the fathers out of the equation and support the mothers? Sure, we can have the courts hound the deadbeat dads out there and we can bludgeon the hell out of them if they refuse to pay up, but we also need to support the moms and the kids as a matter of course.
I have some experience with that one, as it happens. After my dad left the courts told him to pay up, but it was years before he got around to it. In the meantime it was on my mom to try and support three kids and not lose the house. She managed (working 50 hours a week as a seamstress and cleaning offices after work and houses on weekends), but it wasn't uncommon for us to have to choose between food and heat or for mom to have to call the bank to beg for an extension on the mortgage. See, if you own a house you're not seen as poor enough to qualify for food stamps, even if you can't reliably to pay the mortgage, heat the house, and feed your kids. The State said that we should have sold the house, but mom understood that if we did then we'd have been back in the same situation in a few years, only as renters. Keeping the house was the difference between holding onto our spot in the lower middle class and dropping down to working poor, so she did what she had to do to keep it. Sometimes food was scarce and having heat was a bit of a luxury (in Maine), but we got by.
Anyway, every kid should get what they need, no matter what, and a good father should just be added value. "Everybody gets what they need and some get more" seems like a pretty good baseline for a wealthy, industrialized nation.
So...
How about universal healthcare so that women at all social levels can gain access to birth control, mental health and substance abuse counseling, STD screenings, prenatal care, postnatal care, and consistent access to a GP for the mom and a pediatrician for the kid?
Failing that, how about if conservatives lay off Planned Parenthood, since it's the only place that many poor women can get the birth control they need to avoid pregnancy or the prenatal care they need to have a healthy, thriving child? It's also the only place many women can get reproductive health care or a mammogram. Rick, if you don't understand why any of that matters then ask your wife.
How about free childcare so that single mothers can work, either at all or just without having to leave their kids home alone?
How about comprehensive, scientific sex education (with no BS opt outs) so that every kid knows how their body works and how to keep it healthy, safe, and free of disease and pregnancy?
In one regard the war on abortion is no different than the war on drugs - you can attack supply all you want, but all you'll do is waste resources and create corruption and misery. If you want to lower the frequency of abortions (or drug use) you need to address the reasons that people get abortions (or take drugs). Make America a safe place for anyone to have and raise a child and more people will choose that over abortion.