I'm working on a paper concerning the virginity of Mary, that is, that she remained a virgin. I'm not finished yet, but thought I'd post it in the defence of ever virgin Mary anyways, and when I do finish, I'll post the rest.
Virgin Mary
The purpose of this article is to give understanding of a Catholic's belief about Mary ever-virgin.
As well as to give proof for this belief.
The Catechism
I shall begin by showing what the Roman Catholic Church believes by quoting the Catechism of the Catholic Church.
#499 The deepening of faith in the virginal motherhood led the Church to confess Mary's real and perpetual virginity even in the act of giving birth to the Son of God made man. In fact, Christ's birth "did not diminish his mother's virginal integrity but sanctified it." And so the liturgy of the Church celebrates Mary as Aeiparthenos, the "Ever-virgin".
#501 Jesus is Mary's only son, but her spiritual motherhood extends to all men whom indeed he came to save: "The Son whom she brought forth is he whom God placed as the first-born among many brethren, that is, the faithful in whose generation and formation she co-operates with a mother's love."
#505 …The spousal character of the human vocation in relation to God is fulfilled perfectly in Mary's virginal motherhood.
#506 Mary is a virgin because her virginity is the sign of her faith "unadulterated by any doubt", and of her undivided gift of herself to God's will. It is her faith that enables her to become the mother of the Savior: "Mary is more blessed because she embraces faith in Christ than because she conceives the flesh of Christ."
510 Mary "remained a virgin in conceiving her Son, a virgin in giving birth to him, a virgin in carrying him, a virgin in nursing him at her breast, always a virgin" (St. Augustine, Serm. 186, 1: PL 38, 999): with her whole being she is "the handmaid of the Lord" (Lk 1:38).
Common Objections
#1) A common objection to Mary remaining a virgin is that the bible says nothing about it. However the bible says:
“But there are also many other things which Jesus did which, if they were written every one, the world itself. I think, would not be able to contain the books that should be written.” John 21:25
#2) Another common objection some use to deny that Mary was ever a virgin can be found in Matthew 1:25
“And he knew her not till she brought forth her first born son: and he called his name Jesus.” Matthew 1:25
People who wish to deny that Mary remained a virgin inferred from these words that Mary had other children, or, at the very least had, to put it bluntly, sex.
“…but St. Jerome shews(shows), by divers examples, that this expression of the Evangelist was a manner of speaking usual among the Hebrews, to denote by the word until, only what is done, without any regard to the future. Thus it is said, Genesis 8. 6 and 7, that Noe sent forth a raven, which went forth, and did not return till the waters were dried up on the earth. That is, did not return any more. Also Isaias 46. 4, God says: I am till you grow old. Who dare infer that God should then cease to be: Also in the first book of Machabees 5. 54, And they went up to mount Sion with joy and gladness, and offered holocausts, because not one of them was slain till they had returned in peace. That is, not one was slain before or after they had returned. God saith to his divine Son: Sit on my right hand till I make thy enemies thy footstool. Shall he sit no longer after his enemies are subdued? Yea and for all eternity. St. Jerome also proves by Scripture examples, that an only begotten son, was also called firstborn, or first begotten: because according to the law, the firstborn males were to be consecrated to God; Sanctify unto me, saith the Lord, every firstborn that openeth the womb among the children of Israel, etc. Ex. 13. 2.”
May the Lord bless you and Keep you always!
Veronica
(PS, Please excuse the poor grammer in various places...I'm only 14!!
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