neo-x -- I am back to this disussion after a day or so.
I have just read this post from page 18, so pardon me if you have moved on from this point.
You repeatedly give examples of people discriminating against
CUSTOMERS because of their religion, race, etc.
YES - this is discrimination. I agree refusing to serve someone because of these reasons is wrong, unfair, etc.
But the situation that is actually happening is different.
Christian business owners are discriminating against:
- EVENTS (e.g. gay weddings, bachelor parties)
- THEMES (e.g. Halloween, gay pride).
Yes - this is discrimination, but this is not a form of harmful discrimination.
They are
not discriminating against the CUSTOMERS.
- To the business owner, the sexual orientation of the customer is irrelevant to the request.
- They would not sell cakes for that event/theme to heterosexual customers either.
- The event/theme of the product is the issue.
- This is evidenced by the fact that they would sell the customer other products.
Now, I just want to be clear. This is the only situation that I endorse.
Yes, there may be cases where the business owner truly did discriminate against the people themselves.
I do not endorse that form of discrimination.
So, in regards to your examples...
neo-x wrote:... Because I detest the core principal for which you are appealing here. You are saying it's ok. A Muslim can refuse me a job, a cake, a promotion, in his perfectly good conscience (because really based on what you said, no law applies, each has thier own). he doesn't support my beleif, message or faith or etc.
No, it is not OK for a Muslim to refuse you a job, a cake, a promotion, because you are a Christian.
It is also not OK for a Christian to refuse a Muslim a job, a cake, a promotion because he is a Muslim.
It is not OK for a Christian to refuse a homosexual a job, a cake, a promotion because he is gay.
neo-x wrote:Based on what you are saying, A Nazi can refuse a Jew, and rightfully so. You may not agree but that is the logical conclusion, sadly, your argument reaches. You are only applying it on Christians, but the logic fails once the shoe is on the other foot.
No, a Nazi cannot refuse a Jew because they are Jewish.
It is not OK to refuse a person service because of their race, religion, sexual orientation, etc.
neo-x wrote:Nor was Mrs. K's, I should bake my own? What's next, they refuse to sell you a car, you're gonna make one yourself as well?
You are changing the analogy...
They are not refusing to serve YOU because you are a Christian.
They are refusing to make a product with a CHRISTIAN THEME which they would not sell even to another Muslim.
So your car analogy does not follow at all from what I am saying.
neo-x wrote:But discrimination is what it is, be it against christians or done by them.
Some forms of discrimination are unfair and harmful.
Some forms of discrimination are not.
neo-x wrote:Mrs.K wrote:You want to sue every business in the country because you can't have a Christian cake? How loving of you.
"Wrong, unfair, unjust, discriminating" are ridiculous when you are talking about cakes.
... maybe I am biased because I love making cakes -- it's a non-issue...
People are not going to die, or have hardships in life because of lack of access to a professionally decorated cake.
I am not suing anyone, you guys have that luxury, I don't. The discrimination against minorities in my country is, somehow protected legally.
Curious, if you did have the luxury to sue, would you?
neo-x wrote:You obvously have never been refused a service in a restuarant because of your beliefs, so I am going to cut you some slack and let this go. Just saying, it's only ridiculous when it's not happening to you. Believe me, once it happens to you, not that I wish it, but you will change your tune after that.
Another poor analogy from you... it is nothing like the situations I have described.
It would be wrong to be refused service in a restaurant because of your beliefs.
It would not be wrong for a restaurant to decline making you a particular meal because doing so would conflict with their beliefs, then offering you something else from the menu.
It would be more like walking into a kebab shop and asking them to make a pork kebab and they refuse, but instead they offer you chicken or lamb instead. Is that discrimination?
neo-x wrote:Your, Rick, Phil, K's, argument as it stands, only says to me, is that I am not going to die if a Muslim person refuses me food or service, it's ok to refuse me food or service in a public place because it doesn't align with the serving or owner / person's conscience or beliefs. I should move on, it's not the end of the world. But you can't admit that such is discrimination. Because they will do it to a group of people, holding a specific belief which is in conflict with their own. So you have no where to draw a line and the argument you are trying to hold is shortsighted to say the least.
But the slippery slope that you guys are on, in principal, leads to terrible things. Is that your standard, that unless someone is dying it is ok to refuse them? What if the next thing they refuse you is food? You still side with the argument you made?
I think you guys are blind-sided by either too much liberty or too much fear. But whatever you are saying is simply unfair and impractical.
I think you have completely misunderstood the situation.
I believe I have drawn the line above. Let me know if you still do not follow it.
People nowadays are taking others to court because of offense, hurt feelings, instead of real harm.
If I thought real harm was caused to the person, then they would likely have a case.