Jad wrote:
The opposite of Love, is Non-Love, not Hate. I might not love cats but that doesn't mean I Hate them. I'm a dog 'person' hehe. I don't love Paris Hilton but I don't hate her either.
I think we can love something or someone without having the prerequisite to Hate them if that love is not there. So you are correct about love and non-love; but non-love does not necessarily mean hate. That's true free will I think. If we only had the choice to love or hate something or someone, and nothing in between, I don't think we could call that free will. Or it might still be free will, just not a very good one.
hmm well thought quite differently of it tho. that not a choice of love and hate only but only love. that we'd have no notion of evil but good only. and love. not non-love or hate or something like that. well what i think that non-love is neutral. i show non-love to those i dont know, unknown things etc. indifference? nor one nor another. but then hate is the opposite i'd say. or non-love. well i always make my scale
. its crazy but always - when i was small - about things. 0 was neutral, then negative was hate towards it, and positive was liking it. same with friendship and other things.
so what i was sayin that if we only knew love - like in heaven for example and would have no notion of "rejecting God and love" then free will - quite restricted in a very important area. yes we could decide left or right, yes or no, mountain or plain, small or big etc. But we would be kinda brainwashed into the inability of expressing non-love, as you call it, or hate towards something.
Jad wrote:
Haha good point. I read recently about a great scientific find; that our memory is not limited to our brain but is spread right throughout the body, including the heart! So I think our new bodies that we receive in the new heaven and earth will be physical as well and it will be a new place to store all our memories in. Our hormones and stuff like that is an interesting question. I think we won't need them anymore but I don't think the memory of them will go away with them. As my brother and I always say about heaven, I hope in heaven we can replay all the times we played pranks on our friends just so we can see the reactions on their faces again... and again and again and again.
I also think the memories we hold now, good or bad, play a part in the person and character that we are today. We learn so much when we struggle through pain and suffering. I don't think these character building memories will go away. We will have no need for them any longer in the the new heaven but don't think God will delete them as such.
really? crazy stuff.OK i think i jus read somewhre mabe even in this forum that we wont have memories. ya when i was small i also thought that yes we will have the nice ones and we will "replay" our beautiful souvenirs, our lives. infintely number of times!!! is that the "eternity"? we could do it forever, play moments in our minds. if we were to replay each person's life. what a lot of time that would take!!
or that they would be modified, "cheated" sort of that all the evil would come up as good or wouldnt appear. hm but still believe we wont remember much. maybe the basis, but not details. and how we looked like. after all - we're still all imperfect beings - so do we want have a rememberance of it? people say "you'll take your souvenirs with you to hell/heaven" but thats just a metaphor or soem sort of literary device.
and isnt heaven a "feeling" or vision, illusion, virtual world rather than a real, physical, materialistic world? well thats the hard debate
and remember this world could be just the same "illusion, virtual thing"!!
blows my mind.
Jad wrote:
This is off topic but have you ever thought how God would have come up with the concept of Time and Space where there was no space and time in existence? It blows my mind. What a great God we serve!
Hm that was Big Bang wasnt it? well - time is abstract i'd say. what is time? will heaven have a time?
Jad wrote:
I think you are still making pleasure or happiness the top priority in your life, and from that you expect God should somehow reciprocate. Again things like virtues, truth and justice are higher priorities than our personal happiness. God wants you to be happy yes, but I think His idea of happiness is very different to our expectations of what we think would make us happy. If happiness is at the end of day all we are after then we have to be very careful that we don't live life waiting for the blessings God's promises us and stop focusing on the one blessing us.
Another problem with happiness as the priority is that some things here on earth that make us happy are not of God's kingdom. Some people find pleasure when raping someone and some people kill other people for pleasure. Some find happiness in money and would do almost anything for it. I think God wants us to be happy in His way of happiness. If that means pain and suffering then so be it. Most atheists think this a morbid thought but they take it out of context. Mother Teresa said something very similar and a lot of people thought of her as a sadist because of it. A better explanation would be this; below is a remembrance comment at the beginning of a book I recently read…
“To the memory of Dr. Charles Smith, a mentor who prayed for his cancer to return if it would bring him closer to God. In the last year he found God in a measure he had never known before. And then he died - of cancer.”
hmm. agree wih what you're sayin
but heh a little misunderstanding. pleasure - as of our eternal life. of course - yes, so it is not at the expense of others. so no killing raping etc. what i mean is that the "ultimate" purpose of this life, meaning life as from earth to eternity is that man
"enjoys his fellowship with the Lord". Yes - has happiness etc. if everything were done superficially - what purpose? if we lived to work and worked to live - absurd life; why not commit suicide? and if there were no afterlife of course. however there must be more than just our duties. dont think we'll have to work in heaven, study, go to school, go on study courses, make job interviews and other lots of stressful situations for... whats their purpose, anyway? current life. Once we die no-one is gonna care what we did, where we worked etc. some deep philosophical thoughts though...
and the cancer thing - irony. and yes there was some website i visited some time ago; it was some young girl who also had something like that and died after accepting Christ. ironic i thoght. crazy. mindblowing.
madscientist wrote:But thanks a lot for the effort taken to answer those questions that were in my mind !!
No the pleasure was all mine. It's fun to think about. I find pleasure or happiness in these discussions one might say.
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Hm ya thanks anyway. it does, but sometimes the process of thinking, writing it down etc. and editing with "quote" things to make it nice... and reading all the replies when one is tired - ahh... but then when the post is done - a cool feeling at times - i got there what i meant to say
OK God bless.