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Re: Stalker issues
Posted: Thu Jul 16, 2015 9:39 am
by Storyteller
Re: Stalker issues
Posted: Thu Jul 16, 2015 12:11 pm
by Nessa
lol..just as well i never sung it in public then
Re: Stalker issues
Posted: Thu Jul 16, 2015 12:13 pm
by Nessa
yes and i just woke from maybe two hours sleep...can someone make me a coffee..thanks
Re: Stalker issues
Posted: Fri Jul 17, 2015 2:27 am
by Storyteller
Nessa wrote:
yes and i just woke from maybe two hours sleep...can someone make me a coffee..thanks
Milk?
Sugar?
Geez! It really comes to something when a fellow woman is issuing orders.
Sigh.
Guess I`m the skivvy again.
Re: Stalker issues
Posted: Fri Jul 17, 2015 2:32 am
by Nessa
Ooooh thats the trick.. wait over 15 hours to reply so you know i've had to make my own several times over
But just for future reference flat white or cappuccino no sugar single shot
Actually I was just thinkng bout you wondering what you were up too!
Re: Stalker issues
Posted: Fri Jul 17, 2015 2:46 am
by Storyteller
Wondering what i was up to? Not making you a coffee obviously
Just got into work, posted off two orders (normally its about 15
)
Now reading through the posts. Will be off early today as hubbys niece is visiting with her two kids so we`re going to do lunch
(So you`ll have to make your own coffee
)
Re: Stalker issues
Posted: Fri Jul 17, 2015 2:48 am
by Nessa
just a little update...
Rung police and they have confirmed that they have been round twice but no one home.. They need to keep trying... The guy walks the streets of our city everyday all day so not suprised..
The guy I talked too today was reading the report so far and kept saying "what a real weirdo" which didn't make me feel any better at all
this police guy had actually grown up around the guy in question and knows him. He said he thinks he should talk to the mother as she would be the key person to help explain things etc.. the guy is deaf and dumb so obviously its not going to be as simple as just saying it directly.. the police guy said the guy in question has a red flag and pic on his profile with them. This is due to mental health issues not yet because he's been reported by anyone else. Though the police guy agreed that things are getting a bit more intense and the guy could turn...
still gotta wait...
Re: Stalker issues
Posted: Fri Jul 17, 2015 2:52 am
by Storyteller
Still sounds scary.
I suppose you could argue if the guy is deaf and dumb with mental issues he is going to be a little, shall we say, different.
It`s a fine line between showing compassion and bearing in mind his condition and fear. He could be completely harmless but it`s still gotta be scary.
Re: Stalker issues
Posted: Fri Jul 17, 2015 2:52 am
by Nessa
Storyteller wrote:Wondering what i was up to? Not making you a coffee obviously
Just got into work, posted off two orders (normally its about 15
)
Now reading through the posts. Will be off early today as hubbys niece is visiting with her two kids so we`re going to do lunch
(So you`ll have to make your own coffee
)
Oh yum.. where are you guys going for lunch.. c'mon make me drool
Is that orders from people coming into the shop or orders off the internet? Really hope you get more
Re: Stalker issues
Posted: Fri Jul 17, 2015 2:58 am
by Nessa
Storyteller wrote:
Still sounds scary.
I suppose you could argue if the guy is deaf and dumb with mental issues he is going to be a little, shall we say, different.
It`s a fine line between showing compassion and bearing in mind his condition and fear. He could be completely harmless but it`s still gotta be scary.
I know! Thats mostly whats held me back all these years. Thinking am I paranoid?! Is it all me? And I felt I was getting those messages from my husband and work mates etc (up until now)
It could be really harmless (and he IS just a bit different) but even so he has to learn he can't act like this... even if he is (and i don't believe it) totally unaware of what he's doing.
I never wanted to look like I was doing this too him cos of the mental health thing... like going after him just cos he has 'issues'. I mean I have mental health issues in the form of an anxiety disorder... I"m not trying to discriminate unfairly
Re: Stalker issues
Posted: Fri Jul 17, 2015 3:01 am
by Kurieuo
Ahh... good to know playing deaf and dumb worked...
Re: Stalker issues
Posted: Fri Jul 17, 2015 3:05 am
by Nessa
Kurieuo wrote:Ahh... good to know playing deaf and dumb worked...
Re: Stalker issues
Posted: Fri Jul 17, 2015 3:08 am
by Storyteller
K? You are soooooo lucky I can`t find the spanking smiley!
Nessa... lunch will be at our local cafe that does THE most AMAZING fish and chips, with mushy peas. Dunno if that will get you drooling but I am
I think you`re handling your stalker situation really well to be honest. Know exactly what you mean about not wanting to cause a scene because of his issues, and I agree, just because he has mental issues doesn`t necessarily mean he is a danger BUT just because he has issues doesn`t mean he isn`t.
Hopefully his mother talking to him will sort it out.
Re: Stalker issues
Posted: Fri Jul 17, 2015 3:25 am
by Storyteller
PS. Orders off ebay, just not enough of them!
Right, anyway, I must shoot, places to go, people to see, you know?
Catch you all later.
xxxx
Re: Stalker issues
Posted: Fri Jul 17, 2015 3:30 am
by Kurieuo
But, DS is my mother?