Hi all,
I copied a piece of our dalog to my older friend and I think it is interesting to put his reaction here. (Our statements are in quotes his ones are in simple words.)
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I am thinking about what such an atheist should do. Should he say: "Well God, I do not know if you exist, but rather I'm going to believe in you, since the atheism wouldn't be a partucularly good choice if you exist." Is this fair to God? Or another question: Isn't this insane? (no offence here, just contemplating)
If the atheist decides to "believe" as described, well, the truth is, he doesn't. That is not belief. It may be polite, perhaps as wise as buying insurance against a probable disaster in the future. But it's not belief of a saving kind (and God would be able to tell). It's not even a belief that would satisfy the so-called believer himself. It's doomed from the outset.
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Well, the argument itself is a rewording of Pascal's wager, and no, it isn't insane, it is pretty logical. I might not have been clear so I'll try to clarify: Suppose God exists and the atheist doesn't know about Him: The atheist should spend all his time -trying- to know Him! Suppose God exists and the atheist doesn't want to know about Him: That seems 'insane', as you put. This is the scenario I was talking about. There is a subliminal acknowledgement that the atheist already has some inclination that God exists in this scenario (or at least could), but they don't want anything to do with Him.
Of course, if God exists and we do nothing to know him, we are "foolish" in the extreme (better than "insane"). If we supress the knowledge of God as he reveals himself in favor of a God of our own minds preferences, we are foolish again. If God cannot be known apart from his enabling us to believe, then if he's a good God, there is a reason for this that does not "incriminate" him (and there is such a reason for this).
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Do you think that God accepts a person who is going to believe just because of the wager? Would God be pleased by that? Shouldn't people come to God from other reasons?
You are correct in your position. Consider this from a human angle. Would "any reason" be good enough for you to allow a man to be your partner in life? He needs a warm bed-so good enough. He gets hungry, I cook: good enough. He makes me feel better-good enough. I think that we want to be loved for who we are. God reveals so much about himself in creation (both concretely and visually, conceptually in math, laws of physics, etc.) that we have plenty of reasons to be attracted to him. But if he sends his one and only Son to die so we can be freely forgiven when we do come to him, and be both forgiven and deeply and eternally loved--THAT is the reason for believing. But even these "reasons" cannot be enough. We need faith. For I cannot "see" God, and faith unlocks the mysteries of our minds and hearts and frees us to believe what we've known all along, but lacked the faith.
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Well, what makes one 'reason' better than another 'reason'? Does it matter to the government why I pay my taxes as long as I do? Probably not.
It is written, "the devils believe and tremble". They nevertheless are not saved. Why? They do not have faith that is mingled with love and gratitude. They KNOW he exists as surely as Devils exist. But I come to God not merely to know (but I do also want to know) but mainly because I've come to have a hole in my heart: a deep-seated need to know acceptance and love (not a mighty deity). He draws my heart because of his meeting me where I am. He's patient and kind as I probe, seemingly in the dark. He offers light (but I often refuse it). He surrounds me with evidences (I tend to rationalize them into uselessness). But he keeps on coming, and I keep feeling that hole. But he insists upon offering me solutions to my inner-needs that satisfy my heart. Well, I am drawn to such a one as this. So, when he opens my eyes I see myself as the stubborn sinner I really am (for my good). But he also shows me Christ and his cross-work, thus he forgives me in that same Christ.
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Yes and No, really depends on whether it is about admitting that someone exists beyond our natural and scientific realms. God accepts a person in faith, doesn't matter if the faith was born of a logical conclusion or rational wager or by reading John 3:16. what matters is that one should not be cheating his own self into faith. Faith comes by hope, hope that exists because of a choice, the choice can be born out of any set of events or circumstances. The choice is only, you believe or you don't. There is no formula involved. It doesn't matter by what reason you come to God, either you believe or you don't, however if you come, just come in faith. On a side note, try trusting God (even if it makes you feel embarrassed or illogical, try it), if he is out there and you wanna really know about him, you'll probably cross paths, at least I hope so.
Respectfully, I would suggest that they see that faith is a gift from God. He gives it to whomever he will. But what that looks like is different in each individual case. Some find him by reason, some find him by logic. Some find him in conflict. But rest assured: no one who honestly seeks him will lack finding him. But God is God, he defines our needs and he identifies our barriers to knowing him (and he does in the bible) as well as the only means that bring us to himself (his sovereign grace) that comes to us even when we are not seeking him, or seeking him in hopeless ways.