Danny, push away, I don't mind. Yes it does on occasion make me stop and think, most often on this forum. Not always to the point where I feel I should abandon the unreasonable or frantically try to rationalise it. That's part of why I'm quite attracted to Zen Buddhism, it doesn't place a lot of value on human reason and logic - it often sees it as more of an obstacle to rise above, or sneak below - a bit like pride. To quote Marc Breedlove:
"I think asking people why they do things is a lousy way of finding out why, even if they are being completely honest. I think that psychological research makes it clear that people often aren't aware of the influences on their behavior." I think it was Bart who recently accused someone of making scripture dance a jig to their own tune and I feel this also applies to reason and logic, there are atheists and agnostics as logical and rationally competent as yourself making reason and logic dance to their own jig. Some say cause and effect points to an uncaused cause, some say it doesn't, who's to be the judge? Some say God is logical and rational, some say it's like believing in a orbiting teapot.
For reasonable and logical atheism I would, as usual, point to J.L Makie's "The Miracle of Theism". He doesn't win me over but by the end of it I felt that he has a pretty solid reasonable, logical and philosophical base for his rejection of theism. It's worth a read, I can lend you it if you wish.
Murray, I agree that there will likely always be a difference of opinion in regards to homosexuality. But the examples you sight of rape and murder also vary from person to person and place to place. There are cases of rape and murder which split public opinion as the case of consensual homosexual relationships split opinion. That's where we need dialogue. The problem with homosexuality is that unlike rape and murder it is fairly well accepted in society, people aren't attempting to to avoid the label homosexual by redefining what they do as a rapist or murderer may. The rapist may say it was consensual, the murderer may say it was manslaughter or self defence, but the homosexual is saying they are homosexual and there's nothing inherently wrong with that. Homosexuality seems to have outgrown many of its negative connotations, again these are generalisations, there will still be the Manson's of this world who claim the one thing they regret is not killing enough.
Murder is not simply the ending of life and rape is not simply the placing of genitals into another body. They involve complex notions of intent, consent and circumstance. Homosexuality is easy - it's putting that bit into that bit, and by your reckoning no matter what the intent, consent or circumstance it is wrong. I can have sex with a women and it may be considered morally fine or it may be considered rape, I can shoot a man and it may be considered morally fine or murder, but if I put my thing in another man's behind it's just plain wrong, all circumstantial evidence becomes irrelevant.
Marcus, I think the way most defend murder is by claiming it isn't murder. Eating animals isn't murder, the death sentence isn't murder, shooting other soldiers isn't murder, defending your home with a shotgun isn't murder.... you get the idea.
Killing which is not in line with one's own standards is often considered murder, the acquisition of things outwith one's own standards is often considered theft, the response which is considered hateful has simply been misinterpreted, or was well deserved, or was what they had to hear.
I do have standards, the issue seems to be that I don't have a standard that I have complete faith in with which I can use to measure my own standards and those of others against, an objective standard if you will. If I have a thought like "homosexual marriages seem fine to me" I don't have a book I can turn to with which I can grade my thoughts against. I may refer to books, people and experience but none of these are an ultimate standard.
Byblos wrote:The fact is that we are created in God's image for a purpose and that purpose is first and foremost to have fellowship with God AND with one another. So procreation is central to our purpose for being and homosexuality is diametrically opposed to it.
This is where I think much of the issue springs from. Fellowship doesn't need to involve sexual intercourse, we don't have sex with God. There seems to be a leap from having a fellowship with other human beings to fulfilling our purpose by having kids. Unless Dan Brown and co are to be taken seriously then Jesus did not fulfil even the basic purpose of a human being, never mind being a perfect human role model whilst being God. In the Polish Church I attended for many years and the local Church which I have a little involvement there are single people who don't seem to have any intention of meeting an opposite sex partner and having children, they seem happy as they are and don't tend to be told they are going against God's purpose for doing so, they are accepted.
To be blunt the issue does not seem to me focused on the fact that the purpose of humanity is to procreate and more focused upon where people stick their genitals in their spare time. If it was focused upon procreation I would imagine there would be more threads here entitled "Why do many christians not like people who don't have kids?" as opposed to the current thread we're posting which as usual is not focused upon procreation but upon homosexual intercourse. I would say I have a fellowship with many people I don't have sex with, I would also say that people engaging in homosexual acts also manage fellowship despite the lack of conception resulting from this.
Are nuns, monks and priests going against a central purpose of humanity?