God desires that all men repent but allows some to try it their own way and wallow in their own sin.
So God has not extended His sovereignty to making men behave as HE wishes? The Creator has said, "I want you to be like THIS," but the creature says back to Him, "No, I don't want to be like YOU say, but as
I so desire." Also, as God supposedly has not given such men ANY ability other than the desire to continue doing as they please, until death, then God, in His sovereignty, has allowed rebellion and also insured it's continuing. Yet somehow, God's sovereignty cannot give us free will to choose Him and the salvation HE has made possible, obey and repent, without also giving up His sovereignty - as that is what Calvinists say about free will. Sounds to me that Calvinists are very selective in saying what sovereign God can and cannot do with His sovereignty. Again, picking and choosing, according to their man-made construct, of which Calvin himself didn't totally agree with. And so you end up with the hideous contradictions of what God's supposed character is, and as to what unScriptural actions He supposedly has done and caused, and of which the construct is arrived at by decimating the plain meaning of so many straight-forward Scripture verses.
And building a foundation of confidence upon what the God described by Calvinism might mean to us and those we love, who we desire to be saved, is totally impossible. So, according to Calvinism, that mother, brother, father, sister, aunt, grandmother and close friend that you know died unbelieving, that is now likely in hell, that you have long prayed for, loved so much, shed so many tears over, agonized over their spiritual state, etc. - it was all POINTLESS, as THEY NEVER HAD EVEN THE SLIGHTEST CHANCE, as God had doomed them all BEFORE their very births. And so we're to believe that it was GOD who actually doomed them, and NOT per ANYTHING they had or hadn't ever said or done, as that damnation (not the knowledge of it, but the damnation itself) supposedly happened before any of that. You loved them, but God hated them. It's unbelievable anyone can believe this!
And I challenge anyone to show the Five Points articulated before 1534, and certainly not as a cohesive doctrine until after 1536. And if the conclusion reached by the Five Points were true, then the Apostles have to be the poorest communicators of all time! They certainly did not clearly connect the dots as per the Five Points, and in fact said much that would lead the vast majority (and for 15 centuries) to believe ALL men could be saved if THEY desire to be - that God had given them the ability to accept (Jesus/the Cross/to repent), and has made this available to ALL men. Not only did the common man not understand a Calvinist construct from hearing Scripture, but no theologians articulated such a system before Calvin's time. And even when the beginnings of the doctrine began to arise, it was originally due to the influence of only a few, influential theologians. Even today, a relative minority of those in the pew in Reformed churches truly understand the implications of this core doctrine - and that's why their churches survive in any
significant numbers - and their leaders KNOW it - and thus their basic ignoring of its teachings from their pulpits.