catherine wrote:Kurieuo,
I can 'see' what you are saying, and how you are distinguishing between universal reconciliaton which boils down to individual 'choices' (so it's more of a principle) and universal really meaning universal and therefore contradicting the many verses that you rightly mention that don't seem to support 'full' universal reconciliaiton (B.W quoted other such verses). I will have to ponder these things for a while. I've still got two dilemmas, if what you are saying is true (and I suspect it could well be):
1. understanding your comment: 'There is no longer a gap between humanity and God thanks to Christ's atonement.' and how that works out in the real world ie I still feel that 'gap'. The world is in no way reconciled to God as I can see it (even theoretically), and so how does this universal forgiveness or reconciliation practically apply? It seems 'illusory' rather than 'real', it's lying dormant. I always understood forgiveness and reconciliation to involve action that involves BOTH parties but may not involve action by both parties and that takes me to my second problem:
Good point. And it requires a detailed response to even attempt to adequately deal with it.
I don't know about you, but I personally found it hard even grasping original sin. Why was I being held responsible for Adam and Eve's sin? I didn't commit it. Such a universally applied sin didn't make sense to me. I examined Scripture thinking it may be more tradition, but then I found Scripture supported this idea. It still felt more illusory than real. In any case, I felt it was a small matter since I know I obviously sinned myself anyhow. Now I see it can only be understood that original sin applies to all of us united under humanity. If a race of aliens attacked Earth, would it matter to us if not all the aliens wanted to attack us? No. A divide would exist between both races. Likewise, when Adam showed himself to be at odds with God by going against Him, a very real divide was caused between the human race and God. God could no longer have a direct and immediate relationship with us because of it. Hence, the need for a holy priestly order in Israel to intercede with God on Israel's behalf, and our final need for Christ.
Christ coming and atoning for our sin meant the very real divide between humanity and God became closed, and some semblence of a relationship between us and God could now be
possible through Christ. Yet, the world is very much hostile to God and even those who believe in Christ. Humanity does not enjoy the full benefit of its reconcilation. For sure, the full benefits of our reconciliation are not realised here. However, we are encouraged in 1 Peter 1:3-9 to persevere:
- 3 Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ! According to his great mercy, he has caused us to be born again to a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead, 4 to an inheritance that is imperishable, undefiled, and unfading, kept in heaven for you, 5 who by God's power are being guarded through faith for a salvation ready to be revealed in the last time. 6 In this you rejoice, though now for a little while, if necessary, you have been grieved by various trials, 7 so that the tested genuineness of your faith—more precious than gold that perishes rthough it is tested by fire—may be found to result in praise and glory and honor at the revelation of Jesus Christ. 8 Though you have not seen him, you love him. Though you do not now see him, you believe in him and rejoice with joy that is inexpressible and filled with glory, 9 obtaining wthe outcome of your faith, the salvation of your souls.
I believe we are all undergoing a process of maturing and testing throughout our lives, however this will come to an end when our temporary world passes away. In its place, God promises to set up a new kingdom wherein He will dwell with His people, and “He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.” (Revelation 21:4) Then, the full benefits of our reconciliation will be experienced and obvious.
Catherine wrote:I always understood forgiveness and reconciliation to involve action that involves BOTH parties but may not involve action by both parties...
To tackle this last sentence of your point '1', are you saying you see it both ways - that forgiveness and reconciliation involves both parties and than at the same time in a different sense it only requires one party? I would myself agree with this.
I use to always see forgiveness was a two way streak. It required someone to forgive, and the other to accept the forgiveness. Then I realised through life experience, and being hurt by and holding a lot of resentment towards life and other people, that to forgive only requires one person. Forgiving enables us to put behind any hurt and pain and positively move forward for the better. I then realised the story of the prodigal son with the father having forgave his son even before his return supported this, as did other Scripture. However, in order for a
transaction of forgiveness to take place, I still see forgiveness
must be received. Herein lies the key to understand why I believe God has forgiven everyone, and yet many still perish. A transaction requires two people, the one doing the sending and the other the receiving. So while we are all forgiven, the transaction of forgiveness can only take place if we turn to our Heavenly Father and receive it (as the prodigal son returned to his father). However, for varying reasons - denial of any wrong doing, bitterness and resentment, feeling wronged, denial of the One who forgave, denial of God's existence and many others - many remain with their sin despite the complete forgiveness on offer. God harvests no ill, but loving us as He does, He allows us the freedom to freely respond in love back to Him. For only freedom allows true love to form. Sadly that means many freely reject Him and the forgiveness He offers, and it seems to me God will lock their decisions in for eternity at death and cast such persons out of His presense.
So forgiveness only requires one person to forgive, but two for the transaction to be effectual. Reconciliation on the other hand requires more than forgiveness, it requires both parties being willing to enter into a relationship. Forgiveness generally has to do with the past, reconciliation the future. Forgiveness can exist without reconcilation. For example, someone physically abused may forgive their abuser, but this does not mean they should open themselves up to more hurt by continuing in a relationship with them. Only when the abuser owns their behaviour, admits their guilt and brings about fruit evidencing change should an abusee even consider being reconciled into a relationship with such a person. Hopefully that helps to clarify some distinctions between forgiveness and reconcilation.
Catherine wrote:2. The onus on salvation is placed firmly with the 'wrong' party (malfunctioning, 'evil' man), who as Jeremiah puts it: 'I know, O LORD, that a man's life is not his own;
it is not for man to direct his steps.' and Jer 17:9: 'The heart is deceitful above all things and beyond cure. Who can understand it?'
If the forgiveness is given 'against' or outside of our wills, then why not the reconciliation?
Hopefully my explanation given here above helps to answer this. If not I am happy to elaborate anything. Also, I do not know if you have read
Boundaries by Cloud and Townsend (great book!), but in it they define the difference and I am happy to send you some pages from it on forgiveness and reconcilation if interested.
Catherine wrote:If you saw a drowning man and he shouted not to help him, you would still help him against his will.
Perhaps I wouldn't...
Seriously, if I knew he'd endanger my life and then we both could die, I'd ensure I would be safe. Or, if he had wronged me really bad, like abused my children, I'd definitely want to let him drown.
However, I get your example. Even if I would save him against his will, it is different when it comes to God and us. God respects our decision and will not force Himself onto us. There is no doubt Scripture says God does not wish any one of us to perish, and furthermore the Holy Spirit is constantly drawing each of us. However, God values our freedom to choose or deny Him. Which is the reason He endowed us with ability to freely choose. Only then is it possible for the greatest good to happen - love. Love must be a free response.
Catherine wrote:If we imagine the day we stand face to face with Jesus and His love penetrates our hard hearts (I'm talking about unbelivers now)and takes away the malfuctioning parts of our 'hearts' (some believe that is what the Lake of fire actually does, it refines away the 'sin' parts of us) is it really possible to reject Jesus? Will Jesus ever stop looking for any lost sheep or will his actions or work continue until He 'finds' every lost sheep and brings them back into the fold? How can love ever fail or give up? This is why I have a problem with the 'eternal conscious torment' doctrine (and the idea that we decide our eternal fate, not God). I have no problem with a person having to undergo suffering which ultimately teaches and transforms them from their fallen states (for as long as it takes), but for God to have 'given up' on even one person and allow them to remain in conscious torment without any hope of being freed from that leaves me 'turned off' to the classic view of Jesus. That's another big subject that's been debated vigorously already and so I'll not go on about that.
Firstly, yes I think it is very possible to reject Jesus even in His very presence. For example, I'd imagine many would feel in awe and quite numb seeing Christ's very nature. Adding on top the realisation of their own sinful self, a realisation they were wrong, and so on they would probably feel extreme fear and shame and simply want to hide from His very presence. CS Lewis seems to have thought if there was any chance a person would turn to Christ, in life or in death, that they could simply walk the chasm into eternal life. But in his book,
The Great Divorce, Lewis portrays those in hell as being essentially trapped within themselves.
Something tells me, when we die, who we are becomes solidified. We can no longer change or be refined. We are like the angels who were either for or against God. God locks in our decisions for eternity. However, then a part of me believes Christ would for example take into his arms regardless those who may have had a tortured and short life (for a horrible example, a small child who only ever experienced sexual abuse before being snuffed out in a shortly lived life). In all honesty, I can produce theories, but I do not really know how it works, whether there are chances in the hereafter. Scripture seems quite silent in this respect.
I do know that Scripture and Christ Himself seemed to have placed all the emphasis on our life lived in the here and now. I would not want to take that chance in the hereafter. Think of it this way. Would you prefer to be wrong telling someone that they don't need Christ or His forgiveness because we are all saved, or would you prefer to be wrong telling someone they need Christ and should receive His forgiveness otherwise they will be eternally cast out from God. I believe the second, but certainly hope I am wrong as it means all the more people will be saved. But that is sadly not what I am led to believe when I read Christ's words or Scripture.
Catherine wrote:When Judas is resurrected to 'face the music' on Judgment Day, and can hardly look Jesus in the eye, but says to Him, 'I realised what I'd done was the worst thing anyone could do and so I killed myself because I was sorry for what I'd done and couldn't live with myself. Can you ever forgive me?' What do you think Jesus will say?
Your "
can hardly look Jesus in the eye" aligns more with my own thinking. I believe Judas won't even be able to look at Christ, and will want rocks to fall on him (so-to-speak) and hide from Christ's presence. Judas died feeling extreme guilt, and it really depends on whether he will remain that way in the hereafter once raised. We just do not know how it works in the hereafter with who we are, whether we can change, remain static or are locked into who we became here on Earth.
However, obviously Judas was sorry for what he did since he hung himself. Given your scenario is possible, then Judas' sins are already forgiven, it remains for him to accept such forgiveness and be reconciled. I believe Christ would openly welcome Him as He did with Peter hereon Earth who also betrayed Christ by denying Him three time. Again, we are discussing scenarios we do not know whether are possible. And again, the emphasis from Christ and in Scripture is on the here and now. I would not want to take the risk, and would certainly not encourage others to.
Many blessings.