If you have to ask....
Posted: Fri Aug 13, 2010 10:26 am
Im a new member to this site and have read quite a few of the questions and moral dilemmas on the discussion board. Some create some rather lively discussion . As a person rediscovering my faith after a long hiatus, I find it interesting how those with an established faith get caught up in minutiae (for lack of a better word), or as a concept 'major in minor things'
That always seems to be the path of men..i.e. Organized religion laying out interpretations of scripture, and people following them.
I would say that you already know the answer to your question, thats why your asking it. That or you enjoy that others are taking notice of your 'righteousness'.(Ill assume thats not it)
What do I mean?
Well, if your asking if violent video games are inappropriate , or bad..there is a piece of you (your conscience) that has already informed you through a feeling (this is not a good idea, this is bad, this just doesn't feel right). Your logical mind then attempts to rationalize with the feeling to determine its credence. Then a myriad of reasons pop up that squelch that feeling. (Its not real, Im killing demons, it doesnt hurt anyone, it helps me understand the horrors of war, etc etc) Bottom line, if you want to do it, you will rationalize yourself right into it.
However that 'it doest feel right feeling' still lingers. Listen to it. Compare this action with something similar, but something you would not try to rationalize..i.e. Pornography. This association will help you not follow through.
In the end, if you have studied and taken to heart the teachings of Jesus, and understand the types of people that will not inherit God's Kingdom, you wont need any advice from anyone, that answer will always be inside you. The questioning is a result of your logical mind and base desires trying to rationalize you into action you already deep down know is inappropriate.
If your not having these feelings (or more likely, not recognizing them) then allow your logical mind to turn on itself..when the question arises with logical reasoning, then ask a simple question..Why do I have to ask if it is ok? If it is not 'ok' then I wouldn't be asking, therefore its not ok. The flip side- Do you ever question yourself if its ok to give to , or help another human being? Do you really need the bible or a law to tell you its wrong to sleep with another mans wife, or take someones possessions?
If the situation seems more grey than that..then ask you self this, and let it be your #1 filter. How would I explain God that what I am doing is 'ok'?
"God, I think its ok to engage in virtual killing of other human beings because...." Gets kind of hard to explain..
Just remember how it felt being a 10 year old and being brought in front of Mom or Dad and explaining why you thought what you did was ok...didn't you tend to be on the verge of tears, or already crying because you KNEW it was wrong because you could not explain it? (the beauty of a lack of life experience to fall upon when attempting to rationalize)
A simple filter- dont do it if:
If it 'just doesnt feel right'
If it will harm someone else - mentally, physically or spiritually
If it will harm your self- mentally, physically or spiritually
If it is something that will bring you to act upon a known moral weakness (i.e. when you drink you act upon your desire to fornicate- so for YOU drinking is a no-no)
If you cant explain why its ok to God
That always seems to be the path of men..i.e. Organized religion laying out interpretations of scripture, and people following them.
I would say that you already know the answer to your question, thats why your asking it. That or you enjoy that others are taking notice of your 'righteousness'.(Ill assume thats not it)
What do I mean?
Well, if your asking if violent video games are inappropriate , or bad..there is a piece of you (your conscience) that has already informed you through a feeling (this is not a good idea, this is bad, this just doesn't feel right). Your logical mind then attempts to rationalize with the feeling to determine its credence. Then a myriad of reasons pop up that squelch that feeling. (Its not real, Im killing demons, it doesnt hurt anyone, it helps me understand the horrors of war, etc etc) Bottom line, if you want to do it, you will rationalize yourself right into it.
However that 'it doest feel right feeling' still lingers. Listen to it. Compare this action with something similar, but something you would not try to rationalize..i.e. Pornography. This association will help you not follow through.
In the end, if you have studied and taken to heart the teachings of Jesus, and understand the types of people that will not inherit God's Kingdom, you wont need any advice from anyone, that answer will always be inside you. The questioning is a result of your logical mind and base desires trying to rationalize you into action you already deep down know is inappropriate.
If your not having these feelings (or more likely, not recognizing them) then allow your logical mind to turn on itself..when the question arises with logical reasoning, then ask a simple question..Why do I have to ask if it is ok? If it is not 'ok' then I wouldn't be asking, therefore its not ok. The flip side- Do you ever question yourself if its ok to give to , or help another human being? Do you really need the bible or a law to tell you its wrong to sleep with another mans wife, or take someones possessions?
If the situation seems more grey than that..then ask you self this, and let it be your #1 filter. How would I explain God that what I am doing is 'ok'?
"God, I think its ok to engage in virtual killing of other human beings because...." Gets kind of hard to explain..
Just remember how it felt being a 10 year old and being brought in front of Mom or Dad and explaining why you thought what you did was ok...didn't you tend to be on the verge of tears, or already crying because you KNEW it was wrong because you could not explain it? (the beauty of a lack of life experience to fall upon when attempting to rationalize)
A simple filter- dont do it if:
If it 'just doesnt feel right'
If it will harm someone else - mentally, physically or spiritually
If it will harm your self- mentally, physically or spiritually
If it is something that will bring you to act upon a known moral weakness (i.e. when you drink you act upon your desire to fornicate- so for YOU drinking is a no-no)
If you cant explain why its ok to God