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This is sort of a sexual based question.

Posted: Thu Dec 09, 2010 7:32 am
by CeT-To
It is clearly understood that pornography is bad for the mind and it does make sinful ( especially lustful thoughts of strangers) thoughts grow as our Lord stated in Matthew 5:28 - "But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart."

But what about a married couple watching homespun "sexy" video of himself and his wife? To sort of get the mood flowing ( not for alone masturbation).

Wouldn't that be okay?

I just wanna know if there any moral issue i haven't thought of.

God Bless

Re: This is sort of a sexual based question.

Posted: Thu Dec 09, 2010 8:19 am
by Canuckster1127
Hebrews 13:4 4 Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral.

I don't see anything immoral in the hypothetical you construct. Not sure it's the wisest course to follow. Why would a video serve to set the mood as opposed to the person you love there in person?

Re: This is sort of a sexual based question.

Posted: Thu Dec 09, 2010 9:34 am
by CeT-To
Well i guess people find some things erotic and some don't, umm i don't really know how to explain it to you :/

Umm i guess in my opinion its fun and funny to watch together.

Re: This is sort of a sexual based question.

Posted: Thu Dec 09, 2010 11:49 am
by zoegirl
it would seem bizarre to me....unless you are a perfect 10, one would probably not want to see things wobbling about in a different perspective....if you catch my drift.

it would seem to much like porn, also it would be getting oneself used to that sort of stimulation....

Re: This is sort of a sexual based question.

Posted: Thu Dec 09, 2010 11:55 am
by CeT-To
HAHAH i get what you're saying Zoe. Yes but porn produces lustful thoughts of random strangers who are paid to have sex. Homemade vids is just the husband and wife LOL it doesn't matter if one isn't 10/10 i thought we were all past that superficial stuff. The intent is to have fun with ones partner or laugh, its not self gratification or lustful thoughts.

Re: This is sort of a sexual based question.

Posted: Thu Dec 09, 2010 12:04 pm
by zoegirl
hmmm....yeah, I know....one doesn't have to be a perfect ten....but somehow, when gravity starts to win the battle :-

Re: This is sort of a sexual based question.

Posted: Thu Dec 09, 2010 12:14 pm
by CeT-To
LOL fail emoticon, zoe? :P

Re: This is sort of a sexual based question.

Posted: Thu Dec 09, 2010 1:25 pm
by zoegirl
:esurprised:

in all applications :lol:

What's funny is that I find this a way weirder question than the one about flatulence. I would think people would focus on performance for the camera instead of the act with the other person.

Re: This is sort of a sexual based question.

Posted: Thu Dec 09, 2010 1:57 pm
by CeT-To
LOL hahaha Gman hehe . Well that depends i never really stated it was "acting" but who doesn't enjoy ( and cringe :P) at bad acting...it would be like a sexy comedy. y:o) :giverose: Sounds fun to me! :mrgreen: