funny vid
Posted: Wed Dec 22, 2010 9:24 am
"The heavens declare the glory of God; the skies proclaim the work of his hands." (Psalm 19:1)
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zoegirl wrote:But what I want to know....is it really that hard? For all of their examples, one would think that pretty quickly one would understand the meanings of the other gender. Being single, perhaps I don't really have that experience....it was funny, but rather incomprehensible that we could be that....blind to the other person.
Yes, the more you stay together the more you learn, but a ridicules number of marriages do not make it far enough to learn each other well. And one major reason for that is that the couple does not understand the nature of the other. And it goes deeper than that, they need what God gives to truly be in the type of love God would have for them. Even the people that do make a marriage last, many of them are not truly happy and just remain together out of some selfish need, fear or out of necessity, struggling to find any particle of happiness they can come across once in a blue moon.zoegirl wrote:...hey you date someone, married to someone for x number of years....would you suppose a reasonably intelligent person of either gender would seek to understand/communcate as clearly as possible? I mean "you do whatever you want" said in a sarcastic or diffident tone should clearly send the alarm bells of "you better *want* to stay here with me"
Yes, but as you can see, he never said that. And Guy’s don’t think like that…lol! He believes that but that is not what would run across his mind in a situation like that. The translator is just decent (not that great really) at translating the guy’s innocent desire and inability to accurately judge female gestures into something the woman finds acceptable. But that video is made by people who do not know very much of the heart God created. Someone who was trained by God can setup his relationship so that situations that cause arguments or even disappointment almost never happen.zoegirl wrote:of course, men and women shouldn't use these vague answers anyway...they make for funny videos but it shows a sad want of clarity....
take for example when the video turns it around and the guys says "I'd like to see a movie with the guys" and the translator says "you are a wonderful woman who meets all of my needs but for this night, i simply want to see the movie"....goes to simply assuring her
That’s not what I am saying, I am saying that he thinks she is sacrificing and is sincere about it. I agree, he did just want to play golf, I don’t think I suggested he didn’t want to.zoegirl wrote:I think he just really wanted to play golf
Seriously though, you do make it sound like he is always wanting to be the sacrificing party and then she doesn't have that ability....a little extreme
Zoe.. this is one aspect that if a woman has a man will be go crazy with joy HAHAHA.zoegirl wrote:Can't stand the notebook...though....blech...
That was funny zoe... Thanks for sharing that.zoegirl wrote:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A5Vb9SLk ... r_embedded#!
I am with you on that one.zoegirl wrote:Can't stand the notebook...though....blech...