B. W. wrote:Let us know what it is like in your parts of the world!
OK, I might share a little story about Croatia. But first of all, FL pointed out to me only recently that some people across the pond may not know where we are located, so most briefly, we're at the crossroads of central Europe, the Mediterranean, and the Balkans. That's just to the east of Italy.
You may know that from the WWII until 1990, Croatia was a part of the socialist Yugoslavia. This country was governed by communists, who as we know, weren't at the best of terms with religion. Since Christianity has been an important aspect of the Croatian culture and tradition for nearly a millenium, it stood up to this test, in fact, it grew even stronger - supression of the freedom of religion was one of the reasons why many Croats opposed the communist regime, and dreamed about an independent homeland in which they could express their national and religious adherence freely. This moment came in the early 1990s, but the breakup of Yugoslavia was followed by a bloody and violent war, and Croats were forced to take up arms and defend their newly independent country against a godless aggressor who raped, pillaged, burned, tortured, killed, did everything attempting to destroy our culture and make us forgotten. Although the aggressor was far superior in a military sense, we succeeded in saving our integrity, thanks to a fanatical determination, and I dare say, God's help.
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After the war, we made a mistake - we stopped praying, we abandoned spirituality. That's when things started to go downhill. My opinion is that we just couldn't make shift to a situation in which we suddenly switched from a single-party system to democracy, and in which we finally governed ourselves. Furthermore, the transition from socialism to capitalism didn't go through too well and many big companies either went bankrupt or were sold. 16 years after the end of the war, our economy is still recovering from the recent recession, unemployment is high, administration efficiency is low. Croatia is expected to enter the EU in 2013, so many hope that this will solve our problems, but honestly I don't think much will change until we start to change ourselves for the better.
Now, back to B.W.'s original question about the spiritual condition - it's far from good. People alienated from each other, they became tense, grumpy, reserved, there is a collective lack of self-confidence going on because everyone wants to be someone who they can't afford to be, so it's not a rarity to see someone driving an expensive car, but having problems affording food. It's all about pretending, especially among the youth. People are afraid to open themselves up, because if they do it, you might find out that they're not as wealthy, successful and/or cool as they want you to think. This of course leads to an increased shallowness in interpersonal relationships. What's it like to be a young Christian around here? It's not easy, not because of the religion itself (92% of citizens consider themselves Christians) but rather because of the lifestyle you choose. It's hard to find a good church, and many people attend it only when someone in the family is baptized, married, or administering some other Catholic sacrament such as first communion (in primary school), or confirmation (in secondary school). Unfortunately, for many, the point of this is to use the opportunity to obtain an expensive present from distant family members who you don't often see. Another widespread phenomenon among the youth is single-mindedness - you're not expected to differ in any way from the bleak and monotonous surroundings, which lead many young people to binge drinking, obviously an attempt to escape the unpleasant reality - where people are antisocial, music is horrible, it's hard to find a good place to go out, you never have as much money as you need, and if the trends continue, you're unlikely to find a job even if you finish college. IMO, the reality is coloured in the shades of gray.
Some people in my surroundings, even some I know, would maybe disagree with my observations, that's why I'll point out that they're subjective, but at the same time, I tried my best to portray the situation as accurately as I could. I hope my post was useful. Have a nice day everyone.