Problems witnessing to people and some things to try
Posted: Thu May 24, 2012 5:49 pm
Hey everyone, one of the things that really keeps troubling me is finding a effective way to witness to people. To be honest I'm not good at all at witnessing hence the reason why I rarely do it and if I do it's mostly on the internet.
But one of the problems I have seen ever since I was a child all the way to today is many Christians who are not trained in apologetics, theology, and even proper doctrine many times try to oversell Christianity to lost people and one of the ways they do this is by making people think their lives will greatly improve once they become a believer.
I remember hearing these kinds of things in many of the local churches I used to attend when I was young or on many of the "christian" tv programs I would watch the people would say that once you accept Christ, Christ literally comes and lives inside you and supernaturally or even mystically changes you from the inside instantly to where you no longer sin or even want to sin.
They go onto say that you become instantly and forever happy and if you had any bad sinful habits as a lost person they will immediately vanish and you will no longer have to deal with them. I mostly saw this claim with people who used to be addicted to drugs and alcohol. And then finally of course depending upon whether or not the pastor or the speaker has a sweet tooth for the prosperity gospel they will go on to say that once a person accepts Christ they will over time become healthy and wealthy in every aspect of their life.
And quite frankly in my life and in my Christian experience hardly any of these things have come to pass in my life. And the more I've been around people here and at other apologetics venues by and large most tend to share the same kind of Christian experience I have. Now granted I do have hope,a sense of happiness and a sense of objective meaning, but it doesn't go much further than that.
But anyway, do you all think that's one of the main reasons why people today aren't as receptive towards the gospel because it doesn't live up to the promises that many of yesterdays and even many of today's uninformed pastors and teachers led them to believe?
Is the most honest and real way to witness to people is to tell them the truth about the Christian life that believe to have hope, meaning, and a way to get out of hell when we die? Not to mention isn't it best to tell them that living the Christian life is extremely difficult and that whoever decides to become one will be persecuted and marginalized for the rest of their lives? You know as tough of a sell that this would be to lost people, I still believe you would actually see more people come to Christ and more people not give up on being a Christian and de-convert into a agnostic, atheist, or something else.
But in conclusion that's how I currently see things, let me know if you see any problems with this. As always thank you for your time, and God bless.
But one of the problems I have seen ever since I was a child all the way to today is many Christians who are not trained in apologetics, theology, and even proper doctrine many times try to oversell Christianity to lost people and one of the ways they do this is by making people think their lives will greatly improve once they become a believer.
I remember hearing these kinds of things in many of the local churches I used to attend when I was young or on many of the "christian" tv programs I would watch the people would say that once you accept Christ, Christ literally comes and lives inside you and supernaturally or even mystically changes you from the inside instantly to where you no longer sin or even want to sin.
They go onto say that you become instantly and forever happy and if you had any bad sinful habits as a lost person they will immediately vanish and you will no longer have to deal with them. I mostly saw this claim with people who used to be addicted to drugs and alcohol. And then finally of course depending upon whether or not the pastor or the speaker has a sweet tooth for the prosperity gospel they will go on to say that once a person accepts Christ they will over time become healthy and wealthy in every aspect of their life.
And quite frankly in my life and in my Christian experience hardly any of these things have come to pass in my life. And the more I've been around people here and at other apologetics venues by and large most tend to share the same kind of Christian experience I have. Now granted I do have hope,a sense of happiness and a sense of objective meaning, but it doesn't go much further than that.
But anyway, do you all think that's one of the main reasons why people today aren't as receptive towards the gospel because it doesn't live up to the promises that many of yesterdays and even many of today's uninformed pastors and teachers led them to believe?
Is the most honest and real way to witness to people is to tell them the truth about the Christian life that believe to have hope, meaning, and a way to get out of hell when we die? Not to mention isn't it best to tell them that living the Christian life is extremely difficult and that whoever decides to become one will be persecuted and marginalized for the rest of their lives? You know as tough of a sell that this would be to lost people, I still believe you would actually see more people come to Christ and more people not give up on being a Christian and de-convert into a agnostic, atheist, or something else.
But in conclusion that's how I currently see things, let me know if you see any problems with this. As always thank you for your time, and God bless.