There is a lot to get to in response to this post.
Teens experiment and often change their minds especially girls.
True. But what about adults who only feel attracted to the same sex? No one "chooses" to feel attracted to anyone. People who are gay or bisexual don't "change their mind" one day and become gay/bi.
Also from a Christian perspective it sounds like when she got involved with the lesbian girls that is when she started to spiral out of control
That's nice. Most people realize they are gay around adolescence, when they first start to feel sexual attraction. That's also the age where most people start to fall into bad decisions for a number of reasons; hormones, puberty, peer pressure among them. just because these two things coincide with each other does NOT require a correlation.
That behavior is damaging I do not care what anyone says. Homosexual behavior is damaging spritually and emotionally.
Coming from a straight person, this is always baffling to me. Do you care to justify this statement at all? It seriously just sounds like total bias and bigotry without cause. I don't care if you think it's a sin, but you can't justify saying that being gay automatically damages a person in any way. What about the multitude of highly successful and happy gay people? What about the straight people who aren't happy and are spiritually/emotionally struggling? This statement is just so wrong it hurts to read it.
I truly believe that she became demonicly oppressed after engaging in such activities
Once again, care to justify this belief? You can believe what you wish, but that gives you no right to judge someone like that.
Which is making her confused, depressed, low self esteem, and more.
Yeah, because during puberty there are absolutely NO other factors that could lead to these symptoms except demonic possession. Wow, since 95% of high school students I knew had these symptoms at one point or another, I guess they all must have been gay!
it is not because she is a lesbian trying to cope in a world that doesn't accept her. That world view would like us to believe that but it is a lie.
Please tell me this is an emotional, exaggerated statement. Are you honestly saying that homosexuals don't suffer from any stigma or abuse from anyone in high school? Honestly, even in liberal and accepting places, I don't think there is a worse place for someone to be openly or secretly homosexual than high school. Even outside of school, here are some real reasons why a homosexual in high school might be emotionally torn: "What if my parents/family don't accept me?" "What if my friends don't like me any more?" "What if people find out and I get bullied for it?" "What would people at church think of me?" "Is there something wrong with me?"
So again, please don't tell me that homosexuality is something that is "easy" to deal with as a teenager. That's just ignorant.
The reason homosexuals have those issues is because of their lifestyle not because the world does not accept them because lets face it the ones who get attacked are the people who call homosexuality a sin not the homosexuals.
The only people who get attacked for calling homosexuality a sin are those who combine that belief with stupid and hateful remarks about homosexuals. Like the ones who say that we should kill all the gays or the people who claim that they are the victims of a homosexual agenda. And once again, drawing a teen's issues back to one source is just wrong.
It just makes me so mad that so many confused teens are being convinced that they are gay because of some same sex attraction.
Isn't homosexuality defined by attraction to the same sex? In that case, you would prefer that we tell kids to pretend to be someone other than who they are. I say let them be themselves.
Most teenagers experiment and when left alone about it they grow out of it so to say.
Most? I'd question that call there if you are referring to sexuality. Sure, teens experiment with lots of things, but I've never heard of someone I know just taking same-sex relationships for a test drive on a whim. The only ones who did? The ones who were and are still legitimately attracted to the same sex. They haven't grown out of it, they didn't start because it was a fad...
When homosexuality is being forced down our throats and kids are being taught that they were born that way its no wonder there are so many so called teens coming out. I do not care what anyone says I do not know one homosexual that is truly happy with themselves.
First of all, I'd be shocked if any homosexual could be happy around you, considering your stance on the issue. I'd be pretty pissed off if someone decided to attack who I am and then go off on a rant about them being the victim. Of course, I know a handful of homosexual people, and they are all perfectly fine with who they are, sexually and otherwise. It probably helps that they live and go to school in a place that accepts them for who they are and doesn't demand that they change to fit the "norm."
Homosexuality isn't forced down anyone's throats. To be honest, there aren't more gay teens, they just happen to be growing up in an era with less stigma being placed upon their sexual orientations, one that doesn't think they have a mental disorder if they come out.
My problem is I have to be really careful where I voice my opinions about this or I will be attacked and called hateful,bigot,closeminded, and much more. I have eve been called a KKK member and a breeder with a littler of kids. That is how hateful these people are when believe differently.
If you voice your opinions like you did on this post, I understand why you were verbally attacked. See, you don't just believe differently. To be fair, I don't give a damn how you personally feel about being gay. I may disagree wholeheartedly, but to each his/her own. Problem is, you want everyone to believe your views, and you become offended when other people disagree. If you give hate in your views, you will receive it tenfold from certain crowds.
I wouldn't ask you to accept homosexuality, but here's a little advice: If you hate homosexuality and think it's a sin, then don't sleep with someone of the same sex. Stop expecting everyone to believe the same way you do, because like it or not, homosexuality has been around since the dawn of civilization and it isn't going away any time soon. It's not a choice, or a fad, a game, or a result of demonic possession. The Bible doesn't support that at all, you know.