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Sexual Sin in Marriage

Posted: Wed Sep 16, 2015 6:16 pm
by Nessa
Do you think there can be sexual sin with inside a marriage?
That doesnt involve another person?

I dont expect explict answers but I think this can be discussed in an approprite manner.

Re: Sexual Sin in Marriage

Posted: Wed Sep 16, 2015 11:13 pm
by neo-x
Sure there can be. Generally anything you force upon your partner which he/she doesn't agree to but is still forced to do, is not in love, as you are not respecting their wishes, that is indeed sin, because it is selfish.

Re: Sexual Sin in Marriage

Posted: Wed Sep 16, 2015 11:18 pm
by Nessa
neo-x wrote:Sure there can be. Generally anything you force upon your partner which he/she doesn't agree to but is still forced to do, is not in love, as you are not respecting their wishes, that is indeed sin, because it is selfish.
Is witholding sex a sin? as that could be just as selfish depending on the circumstances

Re: Sexual Sin in Marriage

Posted: Wed Sep 16, 2015 11:21 pm
by neo-x
Nessa wrote:
neo-x wrote:Sure there can be. Generally anything you force upon your partner which he/she doesn't agree to but is still forced to do, is not in love, as you are not respecting their wishes, that is indeed sin, because it is selfish.
Is witholding sex a sin? as that could be just as selfish depending on the circumstances
Exactly! it can be. Because then you are not loving your neighbor as your self, you are not taking care of his/her needs or reciprocating their love.

Re: Sexual Sin in Marriage

Posted: Wed Sep 16, 2015 11:35 pm
by Nessa
neo-x wrote:
Nessa wrote:
neo-x wrote:Sure there can be. Generally anything you force upon your partner which he/she doesn't agree to but is still forced to do, is not in love, as you are not respecting their wishes, that is indeed sin, because it is selfish.
Is witholding sex a sin? as that could be just as selfish depending on the circumstances
Exactly! it can be. Because then you are not loving your neighbor as your self, you are not taking care of his/her needs or reciprocating their love.
loving your neighbour? :shock:

Just kidding :lol:

Re: Sexual Sin in Marriage

Posted: Wed Sep 16, 2015 11:37 pm
by neo-x
Nessa wrote:
neo-x wrote:
Nessa wrote:
neo-x wrote:Sure there can be. Generally anything you force upon your partner which he/she doesn't agree to but is still forced to do, is not in love, as you are not respecting their wishes, that is indeed sin, because it is selfish.
Is witholding sex a sin? as that could be just as selfish depending on the circumstances
Exactly! it can be. Because then you are not loving your neighbor as your self, you are not taking care of his/her needs or reciprocating their love.
loving your neighbour? :shock:

Just kidding :lol:
:mrgreen:

Re: Sexual Sin in Marriage

Posted: Thu Sep 17, 2015 12:17 am
by Kurieuo
So... who's your neighbour neo-x? y/:]

Re: Sexual Sin in Marriage

Posted: Thu Sep 17, 2015 1:01 am
by Nessa
Kurieuo wrote:So... who's your neighbour neo-x? y/:]
are you thinking of moving? :shock:

Re: Sexual Sin in Marriage

Posted: Thu Sep 17, 2015 1:32 am
by neo-x
/\ That became awkward. y/:]

Re: Sexual Sin in Marriage

Posted: Thu Sep 17, 2015 2:39 am
by Nessa
neo-x wrote:/\ That became awkward. y/:]
Best warn the neighbours :lol:

Re: Sexual Sin in Marriage

Posted: Thu Sep 17, 2015 6:56 am
by Philip
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