Contraception
Posted: Mon May 30, 2005 7:41 pm
What are your views on it?
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Veronica ><>
"The heavens declare the glory of God; the skies proclaim the work of his hands." (Psalm 19:1)
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Do you mind that most Christians, at least in developed countries, approve and use contraception?kateliz wrote:I believe in relying on God and not on contraception. If God wants you to have a baby you will have a baby, and if you are a Christian who is trusting Him for your finances and plot in life including having children or not, then if it's not the right time for a child He would not give you one. God is the one who closes and opens wombs and imparts life. If you trust Him and want only His will regarding this, He will only give you a child only when He sees fit to.
I actually find reading the Bible Matthew 4:5-7. Should we jump off of buildings just because God in his sovereignty could choose to save us? No, God does not usually interfere with physics even though He could.kateliz wrote:I'm concerned about their lack of trust in God and desire for only His will. That's why they use contraception. But, to be frank, belief in free-will brings this about. How can they trust God will only give them a child if He wants them to have one if it's ultimately about whether they want to have one or not? Lack of belief in sovereignty, perpetuated by belief in free-will. That's what it comes down to in my opinion. They don't believe God can control conception, which is very sad. For pity's sake, don't they read their Bibles?
I don't think that "trusting" necessarily means not using contraception. You may want to approach it more like choosing a college, a career, or a spouse. Pray for God's will and seek it with all your heart. You can trust him, as you say. You may then want to decide to use contraception if you don't feel led to raise children at whatever point in your life.kateliz wrote:And the problem is that God, although doing as He sees fit, will not bless people who don't trust Him in matters of conception nearly as much as those who do! If I ever get married I know that God would control every aspect of that because I trust Him to. I'd willingly and trustingly hand it over to Him completely. Those who don't would see "evidence" of God not being sovereign in this area.
You put my answer right after your question. My sister conceived when she was fourteen and gave birth at fifteen. Although it's been a very bumpy road, anyone knowing her could easily see the purpose behind God having my nephew be born. She picked herself up for the most part. And if she hadn't... well, that's not something one would like to think of. She was on a very bad path, and her having that child turned her around. Yes, it was the Hand of God that had her get pregnant so young. (She was a Christian that whole while too, so that helped even more.)jerickson wrote:If God ordains all conception, how do you explain teenage pregnancy?
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And the problem is that God, although doing as He sees fit, will not bless people who don't trust Him in matters of conception nearly as much as those who do! Those who don't would see "evidence" of God not being sovereign in this area.
I wouldn't consider this "limiting God".kateliz wrote:Why would you limit God in this?
So having sex is "not doing anything"?kateliz wrote:It's not like Jesus' jumping off that point on the temple or like jumping off a cliff. I see those analogies as bad logic. It is not testing God or playing games with Him! It's leaving it in His Hands. You do not actively do anything, instead, you don't actively do anything!
I am not convinced that trusting requires that you avoid contraception. You can pray for His will and trust what He tells you. Trusting does not always involve passivity. Do you just spend money on every whim, trusting that God will provide for your finances? No, you take responsibility in addition to trusting God. And hopefully you trust in God to give you wisdom on what to do.kateliz wrote:Which is better, to just trust, or to actively hinder or allow while praying, not trusting God to control without these measures? Why not just trust? There is nothing wrong with trusting God on this! Rather than constantly asking God if it's time to have another child or not I'd just leave it up to Him, and for my part just constantly trust!
I could trust God in this. I think that by definition divine intervention that interferes with the laws of physics constitutes a "special miracle", however. But while God could hypothetically do so, I just don't know that he actively would.kateliz wrote:You seem to have a thing against my opinion, and I do not understand it. Could you trust God in this yourself? Do you believe God could do such a thing, even apart from "special miracles"?
I didn't say that it would be wrong to not use contraception. You would probably have children as physics would normally have it, and God would provide for you to raise those children. If you feel led to not use contraception, go right on ahead. But I was simply pointing out that others might feel led to use it.kateliz wrote:Or, as it seems you've stated, do you believe God leaves it up to physics and only gets involved in "special" cases? If I got married tomorrow and practiced my just trust method, what do you think would happen? That God would just leave it up to physics and tell me, "Sorry, you've got it wrong! You can't trust me in this unless you use contraception"?
Well, ever heard the phrase, "When life gives you lemons, make lemonade."? God is particularly good at that. He finds a way to bring good out of any situation, even one that was bad to begin with. I am sure that there are people who came to Christ as a result of the September 11 terrorist attacks. Does this mean that God wanted the terrorist attacks to happen? I don't think so. However, he brought good out of evil. This sounds analagous to what happened with your sister. He brought two new lives! (Your sister's changed life and your nephew)kateliz wrote:My sister conceived when she was fourteen and gave birth at fifteen. Although it's been a very bumpy road, anyone knowing her could easily see the purpose behind God having my nephew be born. She picked herself up for the most part. And if she hadn't... well, that's not something one would like to think of. She was on a very bad path, and her having that child turned her around. Yes, it was the Hand of God that had her get pregnant so young. (She was a Christian that whole while too, so that helped even more.)
You probably mean verses like these. The relevant verses look to me like specific references to particular miracles God has done. They certainly establish that God is capable of controlling conception. However, they do not answer the question of whether God still does this today or not.kateliz wrote:I think our difference in beliefs is whether God purposely allows or causes every conception to occur. I fully believe there are verses on this, but can't yet find them.
Most Christians in developed countries lack trust in God? Most Protestant ministers have no problem with contraception, because it's not the same thing as abortion. If no one used contraception, we'd have massive overpopulation.kateliz wrote: I'm concerned about their lack of trust in God and desire for only His will. That's why they use contraception.
Pedaling backwards...kateliz wrote: Okay, okay. Maybe I just prefer the no-contraception trust method.
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Massive overpopulation, or more people to find saving grace in Jesus Christ?ochotseat wrote:Most Christians in developed countries lack trust in God? Most Protestant ministers have no problem with contraception, because it's not the same thing as abortion. If no one used contraception, we'd have massive overpopulation.kateliz wrote: I'm concerned about their lack of trust in God and desire for only His will. That's why they use contraception.
Pedaling backwards...kateliz wrote: Okay, okay. Maybe I just prefer the no-contraception trust method.
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Maybe both, but if overpopulation gets out of hand, humanity will not be able to survive. Maybe that'll be the point Jesus comes back. Who knows.Dan wrote: Massive overpopulation, or more people to find saving grace in Jesus Christ?
No, although the frequency of these verses and lack of any verse saying that someone can be born apart from the will of God do seem to suggest something! There is a particular verse, (yes, a magical one to in one fell swoop prove my theological stance,) that I came across once in the Old Testament that directly stated, (this is all if my memory serves me correctly,) that every baby born or conceived or something like that, was so directly because of God's will for it. If I found this magical verse, some of you here might have to agree that as a result contraception would be based on a lack of trust in God and/or desire for His will, and so prove my original point.jerickson wrote:You probably mean verses like these. The relevant verses look to me like specific references to particular miracles God has done. They certainly establish that God is capable of controlling conception. However, they do not answer the question of whether God still does this today or not.
I stated that earlier, however that wisdom would depend on whether God controls every conception or not.Felgar wrote:I could say that I'll use what God has given us, but if it's God's will that I have a child, then He will have no problem in causing conception even if I'm using contraception. So I have just as much trust in God as you, but possibly a little more wisdom in managing my daily life.